candy on the shelves

i see the Easter

candy,

the chocolate rabbits

and yellow

peeps

on the shelves already.

we haven't

even dealt

with the misery and

hell of valentine's

day,

quite yet.

with the store bought

flowers

and heart shaped boxes

of sweets.

avoiding the holes

most lie

in the middle between

being

fortunate

and unfortunate.

dealing with life under

their own

terms,

using their own hands

and minds

to make the best

of it.

we're not all skilled

in the way

of world.

so many stumble and

fall

tripping over

the same holes

time after time.

the dead sea scrolls

i open

up the box that holds

all of

my separation

and divorce papers.

property settlements,

child custody,

etc.

the quit deeds,

the division of assets.

pets

and children.

i guess i should

get rid of it at some

point.

but it's like the dead

sea

scrolls.

ancient history

getting older,

hard to just toss it

in the can.

what's Betty doing?

when

the guys wanted to have a poker

night,

i shrugged

and gave in,

i said okay, but

only

because i wanted pizza

that night.

i didn't give a fig

about a flush,

or straight,

or holding four aces.

pfffft.

sitting around with a bunch

of men holding

cards in

their hand seemed silly.

i'd hardly

play a hand before

excusing myself

and calling up Betty.

the room is spinning

when you wake up

dizzy,

you sit on the edge of your bed,

feet dangling

close to the floor

and say what

the hell.

the room is moving,

spinning,

is it lack of food,

low blood sugar,

old age?

bad dreams that make

you sway.

then just like that

it disappears,

so la di da,

you'll live after all

for another

day.

the bow ties

there are men

that wear bow ties,

you see them on occasion,

spy them

at the theater,

or opera,

like rare

birds

fluttering their

exotic colored wings.

they are.

strange

fellows with oval glasses.

you feel like they know

things that you don't

and never will.

you can't help but 

assume that they're

smart and smug.

ivy leaguers, perhaps,

but

how can you not 

be smug

when wearing

a bow tie.

the tilted stone

we are measured

from birth.

the pounds and ounces,

the length of us.

the time delivered.

then ages

are added up.

we are marked in height

against the doorway.

we count the years

alive,

the years in school.

the years married.

the kids,

divorces

are measured too.

even the pets get numbered.

how long

we've lived where we do.

and in the end,

there's a number

on everything,

then

after all the tabulations

are completed

they engrave

the years of your existence

upon the tomb.

finding what you like

we find

a flavor early on

in life.

we like the taste

of strawberry

or chocolate,

perhaps mint or

pistachio,

we stick with it.

rarely do we vary

and venture outside

of our comfort

zones,

and so it goes with

most of life.

we find

at some point

what we like

and we're done.

boiling water

as i stare at

the pot of water,

waiting for it to boil.

i think

about the past.

things said, things

undone,

mistakes made.

regrets.

and then the water

begins to boil,

and i quickly move

on,

and forget.

suddenly it's over

i try to round

up the old gang for a night out

on the town.

old town,

actually, and appropriately

named.

where they roll up the sidewalks

at ten p.m.,

but howard says it

might rain

and he's not sure what to wear.

mark,

says he has a hard

time driving at night

because of his

cataracts,

frank has to get up early

to walk his dog.

jim's wife says he can't

go, because

he didn't do his chores

this afternoon,

and paul

is tired and sore

from pickleball.

what the hell happened,

how did everyone

get old

and crotchety all

on the same day?

thin praise

no body

likes a weak cup of

coffee,

or a limp handshake,

a kiss on the cheek,

in sisterly fashion.

no one enjoys

thin praise,

the pat on the back,

as you go

on your way, the words

good luck

to you,

have a nice day.

some of my favorite inventions

there are certain

inventions

that i'm very happy with.

the wheel

for one.

fire for two,

and coffee machines.

although

i do the pour over

now.

the lightbulb was

a good idea,

along with indoor

plumbing.

not to mention the printing

press

and ball point pens.

high heels

with nylon stockings

was a brilliant

idea as well.

the rest i can live without.

although

television

and the remote control

are nice

inventions too.

by the time i get to Phoenix

she's going

to Arizona

to live, finally retiring

from her job.

somehow

she fell

in love with a hundred

degree

weather

with no wind.

apparently she likes

to sweat

a lot.

when i think of Arizona

i think

of the desert

and the bone white

skulls of animals

who couldn't take it

anymore,

collapsing where they stood,

looking for one

green leaf,

or shallow puddle of water.

you should come

and visit

me sometime,

she says.

count on it, i tell

her,

my fingers crossed

behind my back.

unopened mail

yes,

i did receive your letter

in the mail

today. hand

written,

impressive,

but i haven't opened

it

to read.

i may never read

it.

knowing you,

i kind of figure

what it has

to say.

ground hog day

my dog Moe

used to wait

by the hole in the ground

every year

at this time

and wait for the ground

hog to pop

his head out.

he was smart like that.

with keeping

track

of the months and days.

he didn't want

to kill them,

just mess with their heads.

we were so

much alike

in so many ways.

the old two door chevy

as awkward

as it was, we made love

in the back

seat

of my old two door chevy

on our third date,

she was still living

with her parents

and my apartment

was still

infested with mice.

so we had no where

else to go,

both of us nearly

broke

and unable to get a

room

at the no tell motels

along route one.

i remember i twisted

my knee

and she cut

her arm

on a piece of metal

door trim

that came off in the melee.

it was snowing

and quite romantic

despite the exhaust

leaking in through the rusted

floor board.

it didn't last though.

the injuries kept adding up.

she eventually

left me for a guy with

a dodge caravan

carpeted with

a bar inside.

the short lived office job

we drank

a lot of coffee in the office.

we talked

about the games

we watched on tv

over the weekend.

we probably

worked

two hours out of the day,

less for me.

i used the stairwell to arrive

late,

and leave early.

the rest of the day was

jibber jabber.

deciding where we would

eat lunch,

where we'd go to

happy hour,

whose birthday was it

today.

a conversation

about the weather

could drag on for an hour,

or a new tie.

i kept a supply of snacks

in my desk,

so i was popular

in the office.

leader of the pack.

i organized

volleyball on Wednesdays,

nap time at three,

and was always helpful

to show the new leggy secretary

her way around

the building.

it was inevitable that they

would show me

the door at some point,

escorted out of the office

by an armed

security guard.

little bumps in the road

it's not

unusual to drip coffee

on the new

shirt

or step

in mud with the new

pair of shoes,

to get into

the wrong

line at the bank

when there was a walk

in bank.

forgetting

the umbrella too.

small mishaps

are not unusual.

again

i've forgotten your

birthday,

and sent no

card to you.

my ancient relic

it's an ancient relic,

an old drop cloth

covered

in paint.

oils and acrylics.

drops of spackling,

caulk

drippings,

rips and tears, coffee

stains,

tobacco burns,

a little blood

from cuts along the way.

i've had this cloth

for so many years.

it's stiff,

but still works well,

i almost deem it holy

as i fold it neatly

at the end of each

work day,

my personal shroud

of  Turin.

the gumball ring

unsentimental

to the nth

degree, and yet i do have

a few

old mementos

tucked away in drawers

and cigar boxes.

remember those?

tickets to ball

games. 50 cents for

the bleacher seats.

stubs to

a bob dylan concert

back when he could still sing.

a marble that

i never risked entering in

the dirt drawn circle.

a toy soldier

who single handily

won a thousand

childhood battles,

in the backyard,

and bathtub, 

a pink ribbon she gave

to me

and the gumball

ring

i almost gave to her.

fatherly advice

i remember

my father's advice

after i went through a terrible

breakup

with a love interest,

someone that temporarily

became a wife.

he said,

and i quote, whatever

you do,

don't start drinking.

which explained everything

to do with

his life.

the alien invasion

it

was a slash of green light,

a ball of glowing

florescence

that

flew across the sky

as we played

kickball

in the street.

a meteorite

entering the earth's

atmosphere

was what we learned later.

but Ernie,

the oldest of us

insisted that we call

the FBI

to let them know of an

alien invasion.

we stood around

the kitchen phone

yammering

as Ernie provided

the necessary details,

the location

and time, color, etc.,

to warn

the world

that we are not alone.

after he hung up,

it was too dark

to go back

out onto the street to

continue

our game,

but i remember we were

up by two runs.

so we won

just the same,

despite the aliens,

the pondering chef

you don't

want the cook in the kitchen

to be unhappy.

distracted

in deep thought

about their problems.

you want them

to be alert

and on the ball.

concentrating

on the pepper and salt,

the boil,

the roasting,

the stirring.

timing what's in the pan

or broiler.

you want them

to be focused on

the job at hand.

you don't want the smoke

alarm

to go off.

one screw at a time

suddenly, it seems,

the desk

chair is wobbly, there's a loose

screw

somewhere.

one leg, or possibly

two

seem to have given up

on their purpose

of holding me upright

and perched

above the floor.

in time, i guess, it's not

surprising

that most of us come

to the end

of use.

the prayer vigil

it's just a light

snow.

a surprise dusting of cars

and roads,

trees,

nothing to write

home about, no need

for the shovel,

or snow plow,

but i see Becky,

the little kid

down the street holding

her sled,

staring at the sky,

praying

for more,

with all her friends.

the loose thread

it's just one thread

that i pull

and pull.

it unravels

the whole sweater

easily.

i should have snipped

it at the start.

a lesson

learned

the hard way

when it comes to you.

taking a mulligan on the 18th hole

is it too late

to have a do over,

to have

another wife, another child,

another

occupation, another

life?

has the clock run out

on those

scenarios.

i want to take a mulligan

on all of it,

if that's okay

with you.

i want to put the ball back

onto the tee

and play another round.

come on, 

grab your clubs,

let's play through.

who is this?

who are these

people, these numbers without

names

cluttering your phone.

old connections

long forgotten.

why do they send you

Christmas greetings, or

happy birthday

emojis,

pictures of the vacation

they're on?

who are they?

friends, relatives?

who knows,

but they are strangers now

about

to be deleted

and long gone.

those morning people

it's the morning person

you have

to worry about.

they're so enthused about

the day

ahead of them,

and they haven't even

had their first cup of joe.

they jump out bed

with a good morning smile,

and hit the floor running.

what's wrong with them?

they have to go.

Ethiopian food

variety

is fine. the spice of life,

as they say.

but

once you know what

you like,

it's best to stick with it.

when i venture

out of my

comfort zone,

i'm usually on the bathroom

floor

that night,

paying dearly

for taking another persons

culinary advice.

flocking south

i see the flock

of boomers

winging their way to warmer

climates,

to southern states,

to the orange groves

they go.

stretching out

beneath the sun

and palm

trees,

lying there in old

age,

staring at

the languid blue

wash of sea. pretending

that it's not over.

the life

before them a distant

and fading

memory.

nothing that you want

so much

is image, the sheen,

the shine,

the glitter,

the bright colored

clothes,

and smile,

the good wine.

so much

is presentation

and 

gloss.

but once you know

them

you see the truth,

there's nothing

below

the surface,

nothing that you want.

captain of the cheerleaders

she told me on the phone

that she still

fit into her high school

cheerleader

uniform,

at the age of 58,

and that she could put

her legs behind her head,

still limber

and full of cheer.

despite her old and blurry

photos, this intrigued me,

i encouraged her to make

the drive from Cleveland

to my house, a thousand

miles away.

of course it didn't work out.

we all make mistakes.

no more agains

she tried

to bury her heartbreak

in books,

in flowers, in

baking.

she knitted

and sewed, she

walked

the lake.

she found wine

helped too.

but she wanted to

be alone.

done with the world.

done with love

and men.

the fairytale she learned

as a child

was over.

she stayed at home

behind closed doors..

there would be

no more

agains.

when life was easy

the bird feeder

full

of red winged black

birds,

yellow

hummingbirds,

and blue jays

on the fence

waiting their turn.

the grey

squirrels on the ground

scavenging what

falls.

in come cardinals,

and pigeons, sparrows

and gulls.

it's crazy how much

they eat.

another five pounds

of seed,

another week.

will they come when

i take it

down.

will they remember

life

so easy. not unlike us,

most won't.

sharpen the blade

there is honesty

and then there is honesty.

we bite our

tongues,

we're careful with

words,

we walk on eggshells

trying hard

not to disturb

someone's image of

themselves.

but there are times when

you need to sharpen

the blade

and cut, and reveal

the truth

that lies below

the charade.

the skull in the woods

in the middle

of the path, deep into the woods,

where

i prefer to walk,

muddy

and rough, trees

having fallen

along

the way, i see a white

stone

like skull

lying

against the moss.

a perfectly

cleaned head of some

small animal.

whether raccoon or

fox,

i don't have a clue.

i stop for a moment to

study

the whiteness of it,

the pristine

bone,

the empty shell of what

life was.

then i move on.

it's middle years

the beginnings and endings

are all pretty much

the same.

it's that damn middle

that keeps

us up at night.

what to do with all

that time,

from youth until

old age.

so many choices

to decide,

so many different roads

to take.

yours, no doubt,

will different than mine.

the carrot dangling

who doesn't have

a carrot

dangling just out of reach.

whether

goods,

or gold,

love, or some

dream.

who isn't trying 

to make their world

right with

that elusive bite

swinging so close and

and yet

so far away,

no, not anymore

do i need another's storm

that brews

within

the walls

of who they are

and where

they've come from.

do i need

that drama, that wind,

that flood

and fire?

no,

not anymore.

sweet sorrow

it's more

about leaving, than it is

arrivals.

the bittersweet

changes

we endure

shades whatever light

came with

the new

home, the new

life

with a loved one.

indeed, parting,

is such sweet

sorrow.

what the universe says

Jimmy calls me,

he's thinking about retiring

finally

from his job down at the Ford

motor plant

where he attaches

fenders with a riveting gun.

i've got enough saved up,

he says,

the divorce didn't hurt

me too bad,

and the kids are gone.

other than my mortgage,

food, clothing, drink

and electricity, i'm good.

oh and the vet bills for the cat.

so do it, i tell him.

retire and take it easy.

but then what, he says.

how do i fill the day without

work?

i see these guys walking around

the mall in their sweat pants,

or down at the lake

feeding bread to the ducks

and i want to shoot myself in the head.

i'm not the kind of guy

who buys a Winnebago

and goes to the grand canyon.

i just feel like it's over

if i quit my job.

i hate fishing, i don't play golf,

and most of my life long

friends, except you, are dead.

any suggestions?

yeah, keep working.

the universe will tell you when

to quit.

pardon, garcon, garcon

she calls me

from Paris, i hear her

ring

tapping

her cup of tea,

her bracelet

tinkling against porcelain.

there's soft chatter in

the background,

i hear her say, garcon,

garcon,

sil vous plait. more tea

and another croissant,

i'm on the left

Banke, she whispers

in her newly

developed accent.

i wish you were here.

it's so lovely

and romantic, 

you'd love it, mon ami.

so what are you doing"

she says,

thanking the waiter

with a flurry of mercies.

tell me about you, enough

about me.

oh me,

i'm at the paint

store i tell her, buying

a gallon of paint

and some spackle.

dramatic pauses

it's good to

have a dramatic

exit

or entrance,

the slamming of a door

is quite effective,

or throwing

a cup

or plate across the room.

the fist pounded

against the table,

the foot

stamping the floor,

all good,

but sometimes silence

is best,

along with the one

raised eyebrow

and a wry smile.

give me an hour

it's too early for talking,

too early

for a discussion,

too early

for nearly everything,

but coffee.

give me an hour to collect

my thoughts,

some time

to sit alone and sip

my drink.

i'll be on the back porch,

come 

and find me

in a little while,

then we can decide

what to do with the rest

of our life.

you get used to crazy

when i find

you again

in the darkened room,

curled

in a fetal position,

with make up

running down

your face,

from dry less tears.

rocking back and forth

in madness,

pulling at your hair,

i ask you, kindly,

are you having any

dinner tonight?

my dear.

no flowers

as another

birthday approaches,

i wince,

i laugh, i smile.

again, really?

okay. but

let's keep it on

the down

low,

maybe a slice of cake.

no gifts,

no cards,

no flowers.

let's make love,

let's lie

in the sun.

let's pretend that 

there is no

end.

just more months,

more years, 

more hours.

bad memories

i almost go to church

this morning.

almost,

but not quite.

i pull into the lot

and stare

at the building filling

up with the regulars.

i wait, i wait.

but something isn't

right.

the bad taste in my

mouth, hasn't quite left.

find a chair and sit down

there's always more to learn,

more books

to read,

film to watch.

more words to absorb,

more knowledge

to acquire, so much

yet to be learned

you do your best to have

it trickle in

to the already crowded

rooms of your mind.

you tell it to

find a chair,

a wall to lean on, a bed

to stretch out on.

let it come, let it flow,

and yes,

there are things

that you will learn again.

come on in,

my trusted old friends.

the history of windows

the window

man

settles into my house

with his

notebooks and diagrams,

his plans,

his choices for me to look

at. he's wearing

loafers, which he slips off.

a bad sign.

i put on a large pot

of coffee.

i only have seven windows

to be replaced,

but the price

varies

from twenty thousand

to six thousand dollars.

i don't understand

the variance, so he explains.

tells me the story of the first

window they found

in a cave

in northern Africa.

some guy's wife gave him

the idea, saying

to her husband,

we need a view and some

air in here. so the cave guy

took a sledge hammer

and banged out an opening

in the side of the cave.

voila, the first window.

i nod and say, hmmm.

interesting.

it's all about parts and labor,

materials used, he says.

the price has gone up because

of the supply chain,

the war,

and covid of course.

our company only uses 

the highest quality

steel, or vinyl, plastic and

space age polymers,

etc. etc.

it's a lot of mumbo

jumbo.

three hours go by.

finally he asks if i'd like

to see one of his windows.

i say yes.

exhausted.

he goes out to his car

to bring in a small window

that's in his trunk.

a display model.

he pulls the window up

and down, shows me how

to lock it, unlock it,

he demonstrates

how to pull it inside

so that they can be cleaned.

he takes out a small bottle

of windex and spays the window

then takes a handkerchief

to wipe it in small circles.

see he says.

state of the art.

i look out my old windows,

to the trees and stream,

the bare woods.

i feel the wind and cold

coming in through

the old glass and creases.

it's getting dark out.

where do i sign,

i ask him, broken and tired.

give me the middle priced

ones, i tell him.

are you sure, he says.

are you absolutely positive

you don't want to go with the

platinum windows.

no, give me the bronze, please.

the bronze.

an old man thing

i see the old

men

down at the construction site,

leaning on the wire

fence, watching

the building go up.

they're wearing hats

and gloves,

drinking coffee,

some smoking cigarettes

and pointing

at a crane moving

steel beams.

they are little kids again,

with Lincoln logs,

model cars

and planes.

Legos and what not.

it's an old man thing.

no parking on wednesday

when there's a parking

meter

i worry.

i try to decipher

the sign,

so many words,

restrictions,

varying days and times.

how long will i be here?

do i have

enough change

to see me through

two hours.

will i be towed,

will there be a ticket

on the windshield

when i return.

can i figure out how

to use

my credit card?

the sign says no parking

on Wednesday

between the hours

of nine a.m. and seven

p.m.

it's sixty thirty now,

should i wait?

should i go?

i don't know.

your legacy

people talk of leaving

behind

a legacy,

a bequest of some sort,

a remembrance

of love

and support, wisdom,

perhaps.

something

left behind

so that others can

remember

you by. crap.

most people can't 

remember

what they had for dinner

last night,

let alone you.

the styrofoam box of leftovers

do i feel guilty about all

the food i throw

away on a daily basis,

yes, of course i do,

guilt is my go to emotion.

i was raised catholic and

pounded with the notion

that children in India

are starving.

my mother never left

the neighborhood, so

how would she know

what was going on in Delhi.

i just don't like leftovers,

whether i made them,

or they're from a restaurant.

the cost of the meal

makes no difference either.

i refuse to be seen

carrying half eaten food home

in a Styrofoam box

with steak and peas rolling

around, getting cold.

kung pao chicken,

the grease coagulating

into a fatty pudding.

the white rice

turned into glue.

maybe if i had a dog

waiting for me, i would.

but i don't have a dog.

and even then, i might

spare him too.

the bills unpaid

it's strange

how the further you get 

from

childhood,

the closer it is.

how you remember

in great detail,

those nights

and days,

words said, or unsaid.

love or neglect

adding up

on your internal

adding machine.

remembering

so many bills left

unpaid.

just two minor complaints

after the deal is done,

and i've

driven the new car home,

i look at my

phone and see

a few surveys that they

want me

to fill out, to tell them

how well they've done.

i give all the questions

five out of five stars.

everything was fine, but

i write in the comment

box, my only complaint

was that the gumball

machine in the waiting

room was out of gum,

and the coffee wasn't

French roast, Folgers?

really? let's step it up

next time.

the unregistered nurse

she was an

unregistered nurse,

but

i didn't care.

she looked good in

white.

her red cross hat

tilted on

her nest of brown hair,

the stethoscope

around her slender neck.

she knew

anatomy

like the back of her

hand.

she knew

how to smooth

down a bandage

and wrap

a wound.

she gave me CPR

whenever

i needed it.

mouth to mouth

resuscitation

too was one of her

attributes,

French style.

yes, oh yes, she

had a bedside manner

like no

registered nurse

i'd ever met.

unlicensed, but who

cared.

i was healed and healed

again,

she was the cure,

for whatever ailed me.

we almost made it

we almost

made it.

it was close, but

we almost

arrived

with everything

intact.

me and you.

you and me.

almost.

almost.

i'll remember that.

when we had a future

we used to talk

about the future when we

had one.

when the days

before us 

were much greater

than the ones

behind.

if we're lucky,

we'd say to blot

the jinx,

if we're lucky we'll be

healthy

and happy,

wealthy and wise,

maybe on a beach

somewhere.

lying beside

the blue ocean,

under a golden sky.

it can't be unsaid, but

everything said,

can't be unsaid,

but it can be forgotten

if you let it go.

if you open window

and toss it

out

like a paper airplane,

creased
and folded,

pointed,

sent by hand, away,

away,

in any direction,

east or west,

north or south.

hair

I get tired

of shaving.

dragging the razor

across my

face every other day.

those pesky hairs

strangely

growing like wires

out of my ears,

trimming

the nose hair,

the eyebrows.

what the hell is

happening here?

hair seems to be flourishing

everywhere except

on my head where

it used to be.

i'm a human shrub

that needs

constant care,

landscaping.

at least i don't

have to do my legs,

like a few women

i've known often do,

but not all.

the tofu chicken days

do i have a favorite

ex-mother in law,

not really.

they were all up to something.

whispering

in someone's ear

about what i should

be doing,

or not doing.

they weren't

necessarily evil like

their daughters,

but just on their side.

keeping secrets

with a smile.

we got along okay

for the holidays though,

i always passed

the salt shaker

when asked and praised

how delicious

the tofu was,

shaped into the form

of a chicken.

part time gahndis

i sigh

at the memes.

live for today, seize

the moment.

live in the now,

just breathe.

shut up.

stop.

when did the world

become

so full of new age

Gandhis.

part time, at best.

i recall love

as

she slips out

of clothes

in the shadows

saying

little,

just the sound

of shoes

upon

the floor, 

her head 

against the pillow,

turned away.

i recall love.

how it

was before.

out all night

i used to run

the river,

a five-mile trek along

the path.

paved and gravel,

some dirt,

some grass.

it was an easy run,

up

then back.

i was young,

i could run all day

if i wanted to.

the nights were

no different

too.

neither happy nor sad

the cat seems neither

happy

or sad,

just oblivious

and aloof,

neither full of kind

or unkind

intentions.

just self absorbed

in her own world,

not unlike you.

just say no

there was a time

when i used to do a lot

of things

i didn't want to do.

like go to church,

or to a party, or vote,

or shopping with

the ex-girlfriend or

wife,

standing outside

the dressing room,

holding a dress.

i'd go to the opera,

or watch a chick flick,

or go to some

march downtown,

because she wanted me to.

i used to eat calamari

when i didn't want it,

or beet soup.

i would always take

a taste, a sip.

i was compliant,

easy to get along with,

a pleasant fellow,

but things have

changed.

i've learned how to say no, 

to most of it.

i've sort of quit.

the longest day

do i dread going to the DMV

at 8 am,

that would be yes.

only the dentist

or the proctologist,

or dinner with

the ex's family

would be worse, a close

tie at best.

do i have all my paperwork,

my id's, my car

registration,

do i have money,

do i have a book to read.

am i prepared

for a long day.

no, but it has to be done.

what lies under the bed

when i pull

the bed back to paint the wall,

i have to move

a box

full of sex paraphernalia,

a fake gun,

a whip, wigs

of various colors.

clamps

and rope, handcuffs,

a leash,

a polaroid camera,

a plastic doll.

lingerie

for him and her,

tubes of lube, batteries

and mirrors,

a bottle of tequila,

half gone.

the woman of the

house is in the kitchen

baking cookies

for the church pot luck

on Sunday.

she's in the choir.

she yells back,

how's it going?

coffee is on.

more to the story

i see a man

in his bathrobe and slippers

chasing the trash truck

down the street

with a bag

of trash

in one hand,

the other hand waving,

as he yells,

wait for me.

on the porch is his wife,

hands on her hips,

curlers in her

hair, with a cup of coffee.

it's a story i'll never

get to the bottom of,

not that i want to.

birds of a feather

as your

circle of friends

and acquaintances diminish,

due to

a variety of reasons,

such as death

and divorce,

old age,

you look for some voice,

someone

to spar

with you, someone who

gets

whatever it is that you

get, that makes

you you.

when you were young,

such souls

were falling out of trees,

almost too many

birds of  feather,

were around you,

flapping their wings.

too many hugs?

i've never

understood blue hair,

or pink,

or green, or someone

covered in tattoos

and piercings.

fish hooks dangling

from lips,

or nose,

or ears.

straight pins

through the eye brow.

i don't get it, never did

and never will.

when growing up 

it was mostly convicts

and sailors

with tattoos.

thugs and motorcycle gangs,

hookers.

now it's everyone, from

the sixty year

old grocery clerk,

to the teacher,

and the nun.

what are they saying

to the world at large?

look at me?

i'm somebody, or is it

a cry for help

of some sort.

not enough hugs as a child,

or too many?

perplexing.

i'm still mad at you

there was a girl

in high school, Janet,

we, meaning me, used to call

her Janet

from another planet.

she had

crazy hair,

and enormous glasses.

all bones,

knees and elbows.

piercing brown eyes.

six feet tall at the time.

she was the smartest person

i've ever known.

she went to MIT

and was runner up

in the Miss America contest.

i ran into her years later

at the grocery store

she was beautiful.

she looked at me

and smirked, and said.

don't talk to me,

i'm still mad at you.

three boxes of thin mints

i've got

a list. a long list.

i've laminated it

and taped

it to the refrigerator

door.

on it is my

plumber,

my

electrician,

my doctor

a lawyer (God help me)

a therapist,

a car salesman,

a priest,

Father Smith.

i got a guy who does

travel,

a woman

masseuse.

a barber named Zim.

an ENT

guy,

Brian in Delhi,

who can get me 

generic medicine.

i've got a mailman

who

knows my

business.

a nosy neighbor

with a kid, selling

girl scout cookies at my door

three boxes

of thin mints this year,

and one box

of those peanut butter

things.

she just took my order.

the farewell note

she wrote on the mirror

in blood red

lipstick,

i'm leaving you,

don't try to find me.

it's over.

i took half of everything,

which is only

fair.

you can have the dog,

i took the cat.

and by the way, take

the trash out,

it's Monday.

there's a bag in the cellar

too, fish

that's gone bad.

no, i don't want to do that

i could never be

an astronaut.

i don't like cramped areas,

having grown

up in a house

with seven kids

an assortment of cats

and dogs,

gerbils, crawfish, frogs,

chickens

and birds.

i need the wide open

spaces.

plus, if i was an astronaut,

in that uniform and helmet,

heading towards

the moon or mars,

how could i ever get 

to this itch on my back

with a wooden

spoon.

no breathing, please

i'm so careful

not to eat or drink 

in the new car.

how clean it is for now.

not a crumb,

or spill,

not a single cough drop

wrapper

to be found.

no mustard packs,

no newspapers,

or trash.

it's clean as a whistle

for now.

wipe your feet please

before you

get in, and don't

touch anything,

or breathe.

hot dogs on a stick

i tease her

about her love of camping,

her ventures

into the woods,

the mountains.

i make

fun of her tent,

her blow up mattress,

her

campfire,

her bug spray,

and bear

repellant.

i ask her about the snakes,

and the bugs,

the noisy

campers in the other

tent

beside hers.

talking politics.

i ask her if she's having

beans in

a can, for dinner?

hot dogs

on a stick.

are there ghost stories?

she tells me that drinking

helps

a lot.

he's still here

i see the obit

of one

of my favorite poets.

Charles Simic.

i had just bought his book.

the last book.

one of many

that i have on my shelf.

words

hardly do justice to

the dead.

he's not gone.

there are no tears,

but joy at what he left.

he's till here.

he's on the page,

his wit,

his compassion,

his absurd

twists.

his style and grace.

i'm glad we met.

the nutcracker suite

the first

thing i do at a large

gathering,

a party of some sort

is to find

the exit, the way out.

the red sign blinking,

the back door,

an open window.

i begin to sweat

as i smile politely 

and move like a ballet

dancer 

through the loud room, 

ready to pirouette

and leap

and be free

at the first opportunity.

the maid asleep

i find

the maid asleep in my bed

when i come

home from work.

i'm early.

very early.

nothing is finished.

the house is still dirty.

the dishes

are still in the sink,

the laundry

piled next to the washer.

obviously

she didn't expect me home

so soon.

i see a book i was

reading

next to her,

a cup of tea, now cold.

the tv is on mute.

the Spanish channel.

she looks so comfortable,

at peace,

so i don't wake her.

i leave.

i let her rest and sleep,

i can come back at five,

i tip toe down the

stairs and leave.

making bad choices

my friend, lulabelle

likes to rescue

animals

and people.

right now she has three

cats

and two dogs

that she got from 

the shelter

and some dude named Bill,

on the couch,

that she met

on Lastchance.com,

a dating

site

geared towards convicts

out on parole.

he's a good man,

she says.

he's just made bad choices

with firearms.

a better dog to take home

we went to get the dog

out of the dog pound

after he bolted from

the house without a collar

or a leash.

there he was in lock up

at the pound,

but in a cage

next to him, was a nicer

dog, cuter,

shorter fur, one that

didn't bark, or shed,

a happy dog, it's tail

wagging. friendly

and healthy.

while our dog shook

his matted head

and grumbled, saying

to himself

in dog speak,

about time. where

the hell have you people

been.

we had a choice to make.

the fragility of it all

there was a wobble

about

everything.

a fragility, a table with

an unsturdy leg,

the lampshade torn,

the door hinge loose.

every plate

had a chip, a crack

in every cup.

each board

in the floor had a squeak.

everything seemed

broken to some

degree, worn and 

overused.

even her.

i hate fish

we had different

notions

as to what was comfort

food.

for me it was always

meat and potatoes,

bread and milk.

a slice of pie.

but for her it involved

fish, just about

any kind of sea dwelling

fish, and maybe a

spoon full of sugar

free Sherbert

for dessert. but,

i hate fish.

the smell of it, the look

of it,

the sliminess of it.

save the fish.

leave them alone.

just driving around

when we drove

around in Breck's mother's

car,

a ford Fairlane,

i played the drums on the dashboard,

perry Herbert,

kept beat

in the back seat

snapping his fingers

and tapping

on the window

with his cigarette lighter,

while Jim Acs

whistled

using his bunker bottle

of beer as an instrument.

Breck controlled

the radio,

the sound and the station.

we all chipped in for gas

money,

as we cruised

the hood, always

circling back 

to McDonalds.

there might be

some chicks there at last.

innagodda da vida

we all have room

for improvement, despite

our age

and life experience.

despite 

being the old dogs

that we are.

there is always

something new we can

learn

and improve upon.

why just yesterday

i learned

the words

to an old song.

when the muse arrives

the muse

can be anyone,

anything.

it can be light or dark.

it can

be the wind.

an old lover,

a new spark.

the muse

arrives when least

expected.

she comes at night

or in the morning.

you never

when

she'll knock at

your door.

she comes

without warning.

getting the band back together

we get

the old band together.

which wasn't

really a band, but a bunch

of guys who

grew up

together.

we called Dave's wife Yoko,

because she

seemed to be

the reason we broke up.

but after

Yoko was gone,

we'd reunite

and go on tour, which

amounted to

drinking and eating,

watching games

together

and playing ball on

the big field

at the high school.

don't roll your eyes at me mister

don't roll your

eyes

at me, she'd say,

don't  laugh,

or smirk.

don't you dare

say something

sarcastic about what

i just said

or did.

she'd slam

the door

and i'd leave for work.

that's how the day

would start

off.

it was hard to go

home before dark,

so i'd wander around,

and drive,

perpetually lost.

starting from scratch

how can we not

take for granted, air and water.

food 

and shelter. it's always

been there

for us.

at times a struggle,

but it's been there.

it's hard to imagine

less, but it's divinely

possible. 

that the tables could

be turned

and once more you

start from scratch.

it's something

you've been aware of

that since birth.

french roast

coffee

is the last vice.

the hardest to give up.

sweets

were easy,

bread

and pasta too.

martinis were

a breeze to say

no to.

fast women,

i kicked to the curb,

bad friends

i disposed of,

but coffee, dear lord,

three cups

per day.

please help me.

it's the French roast

i love.

the atlas map

when lost,

i'd take out the heavy

atlas

map

from the trunk.

a book that weighed

twenty pounds,

at least.

i'd find the address

in the grids,

the numbered

pages,

like a bombardier

over Germany

during

one war or the other.

somehow

i'd find my way

with the dome light on.

squinting at the small

print on

the page.

checking my watch,

my coordinates,

then

off, ready to launch.

catered, with music

i put on my

dress shoes, my black suit.

my best

white shirt

and tie.

it's funeral time.

but thankfully

not mine.

we dress up for the dying

out of respect.

it's a formal affair.

catered, with music.

words will be said.

some tears

shed.

some laughter too.

someone will say he was

too young

to die.

someone else will say

that it doesn't look like

him,

lying there quietly.

it will be a long day.

longer nights

for those that loved him.

and then we move on.

one bedroom apartment

i shiver

when i ride by the old apartment

complex.

the one bedroom

affair,

with a sliding back door.

it was all i could afford

back then.

the wind

and rain

leaking through

the thin glass and

gap

in the door.

the washer and dryer,

a small

stack

in the closet.

the neighbors above

and below

with their dogs and

children,

their meals and music,

their arguments

all coming

down into my ears

and nose.

seems like yesterday,

when i was there,

despite being so long

ago.

but i was thankful,

grateful.

for back then it was 

a castle, it was home,

it was gold.

she's finally coming around

so what have we learned,

i ask

my therapist

when she points at the clock,

and says

time's up.

what have learned today,

i say again,

writing out the check

for two hundred dollars.

she giggles

and says, oh you.

finally, i think she's beginning

to open up,

laugh a little, relax

in her chair

and unfold her defensive

arms.

she seems to be finding

joy again

in what she does,

and to stop thinking that the

world has gone

to hell in a basket,

whatever that means.

the polar bear plunge

i let out a loud

yelp

when i climb into the cold

shower

in the morning.

especially in

the winter when the pipes

are iced. it's

my own personal version

of the polar bear

plunge.

it wakes me up, kick

starts the day.

send chills

down my spine.

things can only get

better from

there on out.

duct tape and screws

so much

depends on duct tape

and glue.

needle

and thread.

spackle.

hammers and nails.

screws.

forgiveness comes in

handy too.

it's a life of mending.

of fixing

what we can

so that it can still

be of use.

family grievances

my uncle

and his brother didn't talk

to each other

for forty years,

then they died.

my sisters

and brothers have

the same

disease.

holding grudges seems

to run in the family.

my father,

my son,

my cousins, each snubbing

one another

for no good reason,

to some degree.

most can't even remember

or explain

why they

disappear and ghost one

another.

you shake your head

and wonder,

why some stay and some

leave.

such is family, an enduring

mystery.

classified documents

i'm more concerned

about

the unclassified documents

that are under

the president's bed,

or hidden

in the closet

beneath dirty laundry.

what's he reading,

what's he hiding.

what magazines

or books does he consume

before the lights

go out.

who cares about the rest.

the nuclear codes,

the hidden

treasure map

where he goes when

all bets are off.

it's just black ink,

redacted or otherwise.

what or who was

under washington's bed,

or lincoln,

or kennedy,

best not go there.

times were so much more

exciting

back then.

chicken or the egg

chickens

confuse me, how can they

lay eggs

without

becoming pregnant

by a rooster.

how does this work?

what if humans

were

coming out

non-stop without

insemination?

if i buy

a chicken for the back

yard,

do i need a rooster too

or will

the eggs keep

popping out endlessly?

i need to google this.

or call

Jimbo,

my farmer friend

in West Virginia.

we're even now

if you do this favor for me,

i'll owe you one,

she says.

let's keep this relationship

transactional.

tit for tat,

so to speak.

let's keep it even.

i'll pay you back 

so that i don't owe you,

and you don't owe me.

so who's turn

is it

to pay for dinner

this time?

let's stay home

i bend

the shade to peek

outside.

good,

it's raining.

it's cold, it's grey.

look at the wind

pulling

at the trees.

no need

to go out in this

weather.

let's stay home,

okay?

i'm pleased.

the kid in her

she likes

to ride the rollercoaster.

i prefer

the bench

with  a drink in hand,

and a pretzel

with mustard.

i'll wait here.

have fun, i tell her

as she climbs aboard,

ready to scream

and

fly around.

her hair in a tizzy

as the ride takes her

up and down.

i love the kid

in her.

but i like my feet

on the ground.

scraping gum off the shoe

i set aside

some time to scrape the gum

off of my

shoe.

once bright pink

and soft,

now a solid grey

cold wad

of goo.

i get out the scissors

and an old

knife,

a razor blade,

some solvent

and a rag.

it's been a long time

coming, but

it's time

to get rid of you.

back on earth

when i went

off

my trolley for a while,

it

was a strange time.

lost in the funhouse.

spinning

out of control

on an emotional 

rollercoaster,

i was never sure if

i was up

or down, or just

floating in space.

and then you came along

with your

calm presence,

your rational thinking,

and tethered me

back to the ground.

the lost and found box

the lost and found

box

is full.

i need another box

for the new

year.

stop by sometime and see

what's in it.

shoes,

gloves, glasses.

hats

and scarves.

a bra,

size extra large.

breath mints

and gum.

a map of the hollywood

stars.

three fountain

pens,

and keys to an old

blue car

that would never start.

business is booming

i see that the lawyer across

the street

where the big houses are,

has a new

Mercedes Benz.

black with tinted windows.

he's a divorce lawyer.

i wave to him

when i see him come out

of the house

with his new girlfriend

a buxom blonde,

with giant earrings.

she's wearing a lone ranger

mask over her eyes.

how's it going, Marvin,

i yell out.

great he says.

after the covid lock down

business is booming.

are you good, need my help?

nah, i'm good.

very good. i hold up my

hand to show

him my ringless finger.

come on, he laughs.

you're taking food out of

my mouth.

you're overdue for another

one.

i give him the one finger

salute,

which makes him laugh

even harder.

that Marvin!

you thought i had donuts?

for most of your life

you've been

a law abiding citizen,

but  a wise guy too.

you can't help but open

your mouth to

make a humorous

observation,

a wise crack

about something.

so when the cop pulls

you over

and asks you

if you know why

he's pulled you over,

and you say,

because you thought i

had some donuts,

you know immediately

that it was probably

not a smart thing 

to say.

this is followed by

him telling to you step

out of the car

and put your hands

behind your back.

let's go hiking

it's not really a hike,

it's more of a walk

through

the woods, behind

the mall,

but if you want to call it

a hike,

i'm okay with that

as long as there is coffee

at the end of it.

do i have to wear

camouflage

like you, boots,

and bring binoculars?

it's only a mile,

right?

oh look, there's a bird.

take a picture.

the best teachers had paddles

i remember when

teachers

were allowed to smack kids

around a little

with a wooden paddle.

the bullies

and the miscreants

who shook

up the class with their

clown show

antics.

my geometry teacher,

mister Ritter,

once grabbed

a kid by the neck

and shook him like a

chicken

in the barnyard,

lifting him off his feet,

turning his face red.

it was the most well

behaved class

after that.

potent little globules

i believe in germs

now.

microbes,

itsy bitsy

potent

little globules floating

in space

waiting to latch

onto

your lips

or hands to make

you ill by sliding

into your

personal eco system

called lungs.

so no,

you can't have a sip

of my

drink,

and sorry, no kissing

either.

three feet please.

the black plague

it was nice

of you to not bother me while

i was sick

with a fever,

sore throat,

aches and pains,

the chills,

and hallucinations.

i was unconscious for

a while,

dreaming of the ocean,

but not to worry.

what doesn't kill

you makes you

stronger.

or so they say.

i'm back, back in the game.

sign here and here and here and here

my hand

has cramped from signing my name.

my

john hancock

as they say.

initialing

things

i don't read

because the print is so

small.

i could be signing

my soul over to the devil,

or to an ex

wife.

i just want out.

i want to leave.

sign here.

sign here.

initial there.

yes, i want a printed

copy,

no, please.

no need for a flash drive,

or more emails

with pdf files.

please.

major tom to ground control

i've landed in the future

with

this

new car.

so many things to learn.

i remember

the stick shift.

the pedals,

the clutch,

i rolled the windows

down by hand.

i turned the radio on

with a twist

of one dial.

pushing buttons

for the stations.

the heat was a vent,

up or down.

hot or cold.

i'm in a space capsule

now.

touch screens,

and voices

in my head telling me

what's right

what's wrong.

which direction to go.

bells are ringing,

gages fluttering. i'm 

floating in space.

major tom,

major tom.

to ground control.

come on over, but call first

i take

the sign down

off the front door.

the go away sign.

busy.

occupied,

no solicitors,

no venders.

i roll up the

you're not welcome

mat

and put it in the basement.

i'm taking visitors again.

i flip on the green

light that blinks,

vacancy.

rooms available.

heart now open.

it's been that

kind of winter. a long

lonely winter.

please, pop on over

when you can,

but

call first.

piano legs

when she was a young

girl

her mother told

her that she had piano legs,

and that

she was going to have a hard

time finding

a man to marry

with legs like that.

she's telling me

this as we lie in bed, after

making

love for the seventh

time in three

days.

i love your legs, i tell

her. especially

when you put on those

stiletto heels.

they're marvelous.

but she's crying. still hurt

by what her mother said,

fifty years ago.

out the door price

the car salesman

calls

excitedly,

we have your car, he says.

come on in.

we're waiting for you.

my spider

sense begins to tingle

when i ask

him what the new

out the door price is.

tags, title, taxes

and whatever.

pretend you're selling

a rib eye steak,

i tell him.

tell me what the price is

before i put it in

the cart

and head to check out.

i don't have that paper

work in front of me,

he tells me.

but good news, great

news.

at last we have the car

you've been waiting for.

we're so happy

for you.

i don't pop the champagne

just yet.

i say a little prayer

and head over.

make it festive

sometimes the day

is like

a ball of Christmas lights

stuck

in the box

high on the basement

shelf.

you can't untangle

them.

there's no rhyme or reason

to the mess.

so you give

up

and find the socket.

you plug them in.

it's the best you can do

for now.

make it festive.

adam and eve in the kitchen

i had a girlfriend

once

who liked to have a

naked day.

that's right, you heard

me right.

she wanted to have

one day a month

where we didn't wear

clothes around the house.

we were bare naked

the whole day

like adam and eve

in the garden of eden.

she was a giant

cup of crazy.

i finally got her to

compromise

with an apron when

we were in

the kitchen, close

to knives and the stove.

she was busy

my mother

had her hobbies.

she liked playing gin

rummy too.

keeping score.

she put puzzles together

and framed

them for the wall.

made doll houses,

knitted,

sewed.

she had a room she

called her sewing room,

with an old Singer,

on the table.

she read books,

watched her shows.

she made a lifetime

of distractions,

with parakeets and dogs.

her garden.

her roses.

her pies in the oven,

her red sauce

on the stove.

one would almost think

she was happy.

i think i wrote about that already

as i type

on this old machine,

tapping away

at the keyboard,

it occurs to me

that i've written about

this and that

fifty times before.

am i running out

of things

to say?

do i need a change

of scenery,

new drama,

a trip around the world?

it's all repetition at

this point.

ground hog day

once more.

is there anything else i can get you?

the waiter is

too friendly, too nice,

too anxious to please

with his

water jug,

his pepper shaker.

his new knife that 

replaces the one 

i dropped

to the floor.

he's there,

he's on top of things.

asking

how everything

is while i try to chew

a cut of meat.

we know his name,

the school

he went to.

we know his favorite

meal

and dessert,

the exact same one

we ordered.

we may bring him home

and call him

ours.

verification

it takes a while

to log in,

the seven step verification

slows me down.

click on

trains still on the track.

now boats,

now cars,

now buses.

i read a book

while i wait.

codes and passwords,

my mother's maiden

name,

my best friend,

my dog.

and finally i'm in,

but i forget the reason

that i came.

the cornbread apology

i made cornbread, 

she told me,

when i came home from work.

the dust and grime

of the day

still on me,

in my hair, stuck to my

hands.

my back ached.

i made cornbread, she'd

said, kissing

me on the cheek.

sit down.

dinner's almost ready.

go ahead and start.

there's butter on the table.

and please,

let's not fight

anymore.

i'm glad you're home.

go on,

eat, eat.

old school doctor

i wish i had a real

doctor,

someone i can reach on the phone

at all hours.

someone that

will come to the house,

and sit

by my bed

while i ice down a fever,

or sneeze.

someone who cares,

someone

who listens

when i tell them

where it hurts.

someone with

a little black bag

with a red cross

on it.

i want a doctor like that,

just like the ones

on tv.

dream land

i've never heard

of a brick layer, or a roofer,

or a man tarring

the road,

say that they can't sleep

at night,

that they were tossing

and turning,

worried

about life.

pretty much

nothing keeps them

up,

not even love gone

wrong.

bone tired is a wonderful

thing

for a healthy

mind and soul.

five pieces of luggage

she needed three days

to pack her

bags for

a three day trip to nyc.

five pieces of luggage

in all, plus a carryon.

i packed that morning.

one bag

having plenty of room

for everything

i needed, and a little

extra room in case

we went shopping

on fifth avenue.

thankfully, she had her

sherpa meet us at 

the train station.

it's time, she said

before Mary

decided that she'd had

enough

of this life,

and died,

she sent me a card

and 

a tin of cookies.

a note

saying farewell my

dear.

enjoy your life,

but for me

it's time to say

goodbye.

the Carolina sky

thin clouds.

hardly clouds at all

spread

across the Carolina blue.

i could make a day of it,

just watching 

them move.

turning over

into more and more.

i could

waste the hours away,

lying here on

the bed with

the window 

open beside the door.

the wide middle

everything looks

far away,

from here.

the beginning

and the end are points

in the distance.

two coasts

on either side, while

i stand

with arms stretched out.

the middle

is so wide and long.

muddled

and vague

at times.

nothing is clear, 

and yet,

it's fine for now.

i'm agreeable

to still be here.

the castle walls

there's no

answer, no return call.

no one

picks up

the phone anymore.

to talk,

or even text.

we have gone off to our

own lives,

protected

by walls.

imaginary and real

alike.

they can't hurt us,

if they

can't find us.

the browning of bread

i buy a loaf of bread.

not for me,

but for the toaster

i bought it

on Amazon,

two years ago from

Italy.

i apologize

to it daily, sorry, but

i'm careful

with my carbs now.

but i at last i drop

two slices of sourdough

into the slots and pull

the lever.

i've made it happy

for a while.

putting out the moth balls

does it matter

what kind of snake it is

as it slithers

and curls,

rises as if to strike?

are we not to be worried

about the fangs,

the venom,

the coiled muscle

with beady eyes?

should we pick it up,

and toss it

back into the woods,

as part of nature,

a species

necessary for the 

advancement of life,

or just run?

the luggage carrier

it's tricky

this love thing, at any

age,

but especially

now.

the baggage piles up.

the history

is long.

you almost don't want

to know

about

who came before you.

who was right,

who was wrong.

you'd rather put

on the blinders,

and press forward,

think positive

and leave the luggage

alone.

the snow man

he was

born to be a snow plowman.

big

and strong, burly

would be

the word.

bearded.

could there be any other

job for him

than pushing

snow from the ground.

he sits,

away from his wife

and children,

waiting

at the side of the road

in his tall cab.

his thermos full.

his midnight lunch

beside him

as the snow begins

to fall.

waiting its turn

the flashlight has

been waiting patiently

all year

to be used.

quietly

standing in the hall

closet, biding its time

next to vacuum

cleaner bags, mops,

and brooms.

occasionally

i'll take a look

and nod, telling it,

there's a storm coming.

get ready.

soon, soon.

food and sex

food

has replaced sex in this relationship.

i've actually

installed a mirror

over the kitchen table.

i spend all day

thinking

about chicken thighs

and breasts.

mashed potatoes

and gravy.

hot buttered buns.

i can't wait to get home

to make some

jello and watch it jiggle,

with a squirt

of whipped cream.

this diamond ring

my only regret is that

i didn't get the ring

back.

cheating, lying,

floozy that she was.

the least she could have

done was give the ring

back once i busted her

again with her married boyfriend.

it was a beautiful diamond,

pear shaped that i 

researched and shopped

for, for months on end.

saved my nickel and dimes for.

actually there are three diamond

rings i've lost out on.

one more expensive

than the other.

why don't they return them?

that's the question.

jiminy crickets, these

women. what kind of a world

are we living in?

i'm sure they're all sitting

in a box somewhere,

insured.

Mimi's fur coats

Mimi,

after Irwin died,

before she moved to Florida,

hung all of her

winter coats on racks

in her garage.

long coats for

the New York winters.

wools and

furs, bear and beaver,

foxes. mink stoles.

she was quite the dish back

in her day

strolling down 5th avenue

hailing taxis

with a whistle.

i won't need these

in Miami, she tells me.

too damn hot.

take a few.

one for your wife, 

maybe a few 

for your girlfriends.

that's what Irwin did.

women love fur.

how it ends

bored with the book,

i skip the thick middle

and go to the last chapter.

i want to see how ends.

isn't that the way it is

with most things.

the other side

there's always a way

to get across

the stream.

roll your pants up

and throw some rocks down,

some planks,

tie a rope to the far

tree.

step lightly

through the cold water,

and hang on,

keep your balance.

the other side is never

out of reach, keep moving.

keep walking.

take my hand and

come with me.

the morning obits

my grandmother

enjoyed

reading the obituaries.

it made

her feel good to still

be alive

while all these other people

had died.

many younger than

her.

she'd nod and smile

when seeing

a familiar face,

and say,

it doesn't surprise me,

then finish her

tea

and melba toast,

with

a cigarette

burning in the ashtray.

are the banks closed?

i lose

track of holidays

when working

alone.

i drive down the road

and wonder

where everyone

is,

it feels like everyone

but you

has stayed home.

are the banks closed?

whose birthday

have i forgotten?

who are we celebrating.

what turn of

of the calendar page

has occurred?

do i need

a hallmark

card for this one?

flowers?

the addiction

the phone,

the little magic box

in your possession

owns you.

all the knowledge

in the world

is at your fingertips.

everyone

can be reached,

everyone

can find you.

you are tethered

to the nether

world below.

how we walk dazed,

in a trance.

mesmerized

by the light

that darkens our soul,

our brains

hardly have a chance,

we no longer

are in control.

satisfying the itch

the itch comes

back.

it always comes back

never

satisfied

by one

hard scratch, you need

the stick,

the long hand

the nails

someone that understands.

someone

that can

find

the point of attack.

there it is.

there it is.

now scratch.

making her happy

i tell the young

waitress,

in pink, with a black

apron,

that i want a cold,

cold glass of milk,

and a slice

of chocolate cake.

she smiles,

tapping her pen

against her pad.

i've made her happy.

most people

want

eggs, juice and

wheat toast, she says,

at this time of the day.

i nod and smile,

then watch her as

she turns to

sashay away, 

which makes me

happy.

it's no one's fault

it's no one's fault.

there is

no one to blame,

not the doctor, the lawyer,

the priest.

leave God out of this too.

stop pointing

fingers.

it's just me,

just you.

your mother and father

have nothing

to do with

bad behavior

at this stage of the game.

fix it,

or stay as you are,

regrettably

the same.

put some clothes on

when she stepped

out of the shower,

wigless,

the paint off her face,

Un jeweled

unclothed, i realized

the error

of my ways.

what i loved on

the surface

had gone down

the drain.

she took a look

at me

in the hall light,

standing, scratching

my belly

in my boxer shorts,

burping,

giving her

a fright.

and yet, somehow

we managed to go on.

saying little,

and quickly turning

off the light.

the other side of the coin

to some

it's a cold day, a harsh

day

in

the dead of winter.

ice

on the trees,

the frozen

pond,

the bend of arthritic

branches

reminding

you of old

age

yet to come.

while to others it's

a blessing.

staying home

to find warmth

and beauty in the love

of someone.

having a smart friend

whenever

i have a problem with anything

i call my

friend Frank.

he knows everything about

everything.

he's what you call 

a know it all.

relationship issues,

he's got that.

religion, politics,

the environment,

he'll set you straight with

all of that too.

plumbing, electricity.

the theater, sports

or music,

current events.

he knows everything.

i'm not sure how he became

so smart.

i've never seen him

read a book or a newspaper,

and he's never

been to college,

but

he is smart.

if he sees you walking

down the street,

he'll stop you and show you

a better way to walk.

telling you

which foot to push off on,

and how to move

your hips

to be more efficient 

in your walking.

he is one smart cookie.

the road most traveled

you wonder why

good things

happen to bad people.

how did they

get the house, the car,

the job,

the girl?

they're bad people,

evil,

despicable.

unworthy.

liars and cheaters.

and yet there they

are in their

lounge chairs

sitting by the pool

smoking a big cigar,

sunning themselves.

did you take

the wrong path

after all? 

the dog that bites you

i stick my leg

out the door to see how

cold it is,

and a stray

dog bites me.

it's not a good start

to the day.

i clean up the blood

and bandage the wound.

i limp back

to the door

and see the dog is still 

there.

he's waiting for me,

his friend,

a bigger dog, too.

i'm a good person.

why is this happening

to me?

smoke and ash

thoughts linger,

as they do,

wispy

versions of the past,

smoke

and rising ash.

some white,

some blue.

vague memories

that now,

at last

you can see through.

virtually sinless

sometimes we'd be

late

and miss the first act.

the kneeling

and praying part

of the service,

the grand entry of the priest,

the gala

of gowns and music,

the altar boys

not far behind,

carrying things

of vague importance.

we had walked and ran

three miles

to get there,

with our hair combed

and our clean

shirts and pants on.

we had envelopes

in our pockets.

coins for the basket.

we were well behaved.

virtually sinless

expect for the occasional

throwing of snow balls

at cars when it snowed.

bigger sins of lust

and envy, were yet to

come.

teasing sisters and chewing

gum seemed to be

the worst of it,

all washed away at

Saturday confession.

sunday at assisted living

we

bring flowers

to the senior home.

the old are gathered around

a blurred

and loud

television.

a rerun of

fantasy island.

in varying degrees

of dementia,

some

rise as you enter

and think you're their

son,

or husband

bringing roses.

then the bell rings.

it's lunch again, a mere

two hours

since breakfast.

you wait

on the sofa for them

to waddle

back

to the raft that will

sail them

home.

the room down the hall

we used to sleep

entangled

with each other, legs

over legs,

arms

entwined,

cheek to cheek.

sweaty from making

love, our

hearts still pounding.

lips not far from

each other

in case there's another

round.

her long hair would be in

my face,

my hand rested on her

hip.

and then we needed

more space.

a few inches,

then a foot, then a

a large divide so that

our cold feet wouldn't

touch each other.

she's in the other room

now, down the hall.

she hung a sign

on the knob, saying,

go away.

sometimes she closes

my door so that she

can't hear me snoring

and she can

talk on her phone.

boardwalk chicken

ion Ocean City,

Maryland,

the best

chicken was boardwalk chicken.

deep fried and greasy,

crispy.

we'd settle

in at a picnic table

after hitchhiking

down route

50

and falling asleep

on the beach for hours,

we'd be hungry.

there was nothing like

a bucket of

chicken,

dinner rolls and honey.

a large drink

to fill us up

for the day.

with ten dollars between

us,

we could do it again

tomorrow

if we never collected

another nickel 

of spare change.

baby steps

i'm all better

now

i tell Betty on the phone.

she's coming out of her

yoga class,

carrying her yoga mat

and smoking a cigarette.

no you're not,

she says.

i can hear you coughing.

and blowing

your nose.

that's nothing i tell her,

collateral damage.

the fever is gone.

my throat is no longer

sore.

i can actually make it up

the stairs

without holding on

to the rail.

yesterday i ate 

a tuna sandwich.

well, half. i'm saving

the other half for tomorrow.

come on over, it would

be nice to see you.

dream on, lover boy,

she says.

you're going to have to

put those lustful

ideas on hold.

sixty days in the jump

jake would

ask me to visit him in jail.

talk to him

over the phone

separated by plexiglass.

i need

some commissary money

he'd tell me.

which he used

for cigarettes, not food.

he'd always gain weight

when doing

sixty days in the pokey

for a bar

fight or another DUI.

his cousin, Bobby Lee was

a guard at the county

jail.

he'd slip him in pizza,

and fried chicken

for lunch everyday.

milkshakes doused

with whiskey.

by the end of his stint

in the jump, jake would

need bigger clothes.

new painter paints

and a wider belt.

then he was once again

rested and ready to go.

standing outside a 7-11

waiting for me to pick

him up in my truck.

the hummingbird

i wish the yellow

hummingbird

would relax for a minute

and settle on

a branch.

i'd like to get a long

look at him.

study his minuteness.

his bright color.

but no, off he goes

with frenetic energy,

a busy bird.

a bird full of caffeine,

a puff through the trees

with wings

a flutter.

ahhh, to be young again

ahh, to be young again,

to know everything

but nothing.

to be wise without a lick

of experience,

to be courageous and

immortal, impossibly

confident and strong.

to be young again

and not old like this,

confused and tired,

weakened with time.

seven thirty a.m.

apparently people

are still making babies.

my neighbor

for instance is in her third

trimester,

big as a house.

she nods at me in the morning

as she eases

her way into the car.

the husband nods, puts

his hand up

in a polite wave.

he looks tired

and worried, as he leans

over the back

seat to get

the other kids to stop

fighting over a magic

marker.

it's seven thirty.

i need to warm up my

coffee.

you left your shoes here

i found

an old pair of your Jimmy

Choo shoes

under the bed.

you left them

before you slammed

the door

and cursed the day

i was born.

no need to stop

by to pick them up though.

i flung

them in the direction

of the trash

can by the fire hydrant.

i just saw

some vagabond woman 

sitting on the curb,

trying them on.

she looked

over to my doorway

and gave me 

two thumbs up.

weak as a kitten

still weak as a kitten,

i paw

my way out of bed,

shower

and try not to look at my

face in

the mirror.

i curse

the bug that slayed me.

let's keep it dark

in here for awhile.

how did cave

men survive disease?

did they have wives

around

who took care of them,

went out

when you were sick

to kill the beasts?

how could anyone sleep

and stop

coughing

without Nyquil?

what kind of a world was

that to live in?

decisions decisions

some mornings

i can't decide

which black sweater

or sweatshirt to wear.

the baggy one,

the nice one, the one i

usually wear

outside.

the mock turtle neck

one or the crew?

this one has less lint,

made of a polyester

blend, while

this one

is one hundred per cent

cotton,

that breathes,

but keeps me warm

just the same.

the other one is too tight.

i should have

washed it in cold

water

and did the same

with the rinse.

and this one has a hole

in the elbow.

and a few frayed threads.

decisions decisions,

of course there's always

the brown sweaters,

or the one

that i never wear, red.

the condo board

i see that the condo

board

that patrols the neighborhood

have uniforms

now.

brown shirts with

red arm

bands.

they have hats too

with

shiny brims.

i hear them marching

in lockstep

down the cul de sac

early in

the morning,

with clipboards in hand,

their boots stamping

towards me,

i've put the trash out too

early and have

painted my front door

the wrong color once

again.

my rose bush has died.

springtime will be grim.

you can't save everyone

it's hard

not to care about those

beyond

help,

those that can't be reached

by reason

or by love.

but you manage to

erase them

from your mind

despite

your capacity for compassion.

you have to let them

go.

let them be

who they are.

you can't save everyone.

yourself

is enough for one

lifetime.

they were once green fields

is it age,

maturity of some sort.

has the boy

in you

died.

no longer are you checking

box scores

in the morning news.

no longer

wasting fine

days

watching children

a third your

age tossing balls

and running across 

green fields.

it was glorious when

it was you,

but

now a good book,

a good movie,

a walk

with you will do.

let's remain strangers

i fear

that it's best to keep

our distance

in order to keep

love alive.

let's

stay a stranger

to each other.

love is best

kept by those who

don't know

one another too well.

once you do,

there goes

the shine.

through these woods

no path

is fine for me, through

these woods.

i know them well,

i know 

where the water

begins,

where it ends,

where

there is no trail.

these trees

in all seasons

know me.

for years

i've trudged through

the ice

and snow,

the hard

july dirt or bramble

to get to some other side

of things.

again, i'll go.