waiting on milk

i miss the milk man,

with his

cold bottles of milk

and cream.

his dozen eggs,

his meats,

his bread.

all placed into your

metal porch box,

the rattle

of glass,

early in the morning

with his truck

idling,

him in his hat and white

suit.

white as milk itself.

up before

sunrise.

his wife still asleep at

home.

him rushing, anxious

to get back.

stuffed animals on the wall

he had the heads

of 

animals on the wall.

bear and deer,

a moose.

things

he shot and killed.

stuffed

and peering down

each day

with black marble eyes.

no longer

in grief

or pain.

just the head.

the rest eaten? perhaps.

or buried.

below them were 

pictures

of an ex wife,

smiling, a different sort

of long ago

prize.

around him little

seemed

to survive.

i'm here and you're not

i'm sending postcards

again.

it's time.

it's overdue.

hand written notes

to loved ones,

acquaintances

i used to know.

i give them a summary

of where i

am,

what city or beach,

and how much they're

missed or

not missed.

all said between the lines,

with x's and o's.

a parting

kiss

the postcard being such 

an old school treat.

to anyone i used to know

i slip

into the day.

from bed to floor.

looking out at

the grey

warm rain.

i slip coffee into my

mouth.

i slip into the shower,

then clothes.

i slip forward,

quietly,

seamlessly.

without

a word to anyone

i used to know.

almost anyone

he can make it to the bench.

slowly.

a few yards

from his door.

he'll bask in the sun

when there is sun

in the morning.

a cane to help him along,

a cup of coffee.

a smile,

a wave hello

for anyone walking by.

anyone,

except for the neighbor

next door.

mother nature

this weather

tells

you who's in charge.

not you.

this hard

wind,

this steely rain.

this ocean that can sweep

you and

everything

away, if it chose to.

nature

will have its way,

regardless

of who you think you are,

or how hard

you pray.

no regrets

as the market

falls,

the money

less today than yesterday.

you shrug.

it's money

that you'll never spend

anyway.

you'll be dead long before

it gets to that.

why worry.

why fret.

tomorrow you'll go to work.

you'll eat,

you'll sleep

with no

fear, no regrets.

finding happy

it's raining.

the sun hasn't been out

for days.

the sea is gray.

the sand brown.

the boardwalk empty.

the hotel

empty.

the elevator empty.

the restaurant

across the street

closed.

the ice cream shop,

the bar,

the pizza store closed.

but there's a dog

out on the wet

sand running free

with a red ball in his

mouth,

oblivious to it all.

new set of keys

at last

the tight key breaks in the slot.

half

in, half out.

somehow

i get in though.

i get out the tools,

the new

knob,

the new set of keys.

i remove the old lock

and replace it

with the new lock.

tumblers and screws

to the floor.

tightened and secure.

the duplicates go

into the well magnet,

into the shed.

onto the hook in the kitchen

where it won't

get lost.

so many ways to get in.

no entry

we can't know.

there's no true entry 

into anyone's

mind,

or soul.

we can guess

at what they think or feel,

but in the end.

only they know

what's isn't true,

what's real.

the old future

i glance

at the calendar.

still april.

the page

still not turned.

i'm living in the past too much.

the future

seems

so old.

pierce's barbeque

the first time there,

i was 18.

a mere fifty years ago.

but the shack

still stands.

the pit full of fire

and wood.

the yellow aprons of

the servers.

the line at the window.

large men

and women, children

in their shadows.

it's somewhere

between here

and there on the way

to the beach.

barbeque to go.

barbeque to eat

inside or out.

it's on your shirt,

your sleeve.

your cheeks.

it's sugary and spicy at

the same

time.

like you my dear.

like you.

both warm

and sweet.

around again

in his crumbled human

form.

milk soft now

with age,

once made

of stone.

he stumbles, holds

on to the chair,

a table,

to me.

the circle is complete.

from father

to child

and around again.

memories fill

the silence

that hangs in the air.

i can't drive far

i can't drive far.

a few hours, maybe, if

the right

person is along.

the right food, the right drink

in hand.

good weather.

the radio on.

i can't drive far.

i'm bored easily. stiff

from the wheel,

the seat.

my knee hurts

from

the pedal, the gas, the brake.

it's a straight shot

home from the beach.

home before dark,

is the plan.

into the fog

you can't see the ocean.

the sand.

a ship

at sea.

no lights beyond

the light

of your own room

with the curtains

pulled.

the fog is thick.

the fog is out of a horror

show.

a scary movie.

the twilight zone.

you put your hand into it.

your hand

is gone.

you put your heart out there.

that too

disappears.

supply and demand

the car salesman

tells

me that there's a shortage

of cars.

i'm sitting in his windowed

showroom,

surrounded

by cars.

i look out the clear

sheets of plated glass

and that's all i see.

cars.

and black is a tough color

to find

right now, he says.

but it's the only color

i see, 

except for grey and white

and an occasional red, or blue.

today is the last day, he says

for financing

at this rate.

covid and the war.

the price

of gas,

the economy, politics.

the stock market.

he shrugs, it's tough now.

so here, he says, handing

me a pen.

we have a green

used car, a hybrid, sitting

out back.

we're putting a fresh coat

of paint on it,

and tires,

just for you.

if there was a nuclear war

if there was a nuclear war

with a few

dozen

atomic bombs

dropping

nearby

that would

mean no

more indoor plumbing.

no lights.

no internet.

no netflix anymore.

no coffee to make

or pour.

we'd be on our own

with

a headache

and open sores.

it wouldn't be good.

there'd be nothing

on the shelves,

no more farmer's market.

it's best

to run towards the light,

not away.

survival would be

such

an exhausting chore.

fair warning

i tell my father

i'm on my way.

giving him fair warning 

to put

what he doesn't

want me to see

away.

the gin bottle,

the magazine,

the cake,

the lingerie.

i'd expect the same

warning

from my child

if he ever visited.

no one likes a pop in

surprise.

geese welfare

the geese expect bread now.

fat and happy

they paddle

to the edge

of the lake waiting

for the next hand

to feed them.

despite the signs, people

can't help themselves.

tossing out bread

towards the honking beaks.

they're spoiled now.

they have no need to dip

their heads

into water, for worms

and weed

to eat.

they're on easy street.

the opera house

other than Isabel

Leonard

i know nothing about the opera.

i neither

like or dislike it.

but it reminds me of 

childhood,

and a few relationships

i've been through.

the conversations

and arguments being

sung

out in loud dramatic

fashion.

an unequal dose of laughter

and sorrow,

blood and tears.

but now

i like to keep that curtain

closed.

beach excursion

packing

for the beach is easier than it

used to be.

no umbrella

to load,

no buckets

or shovels.

no rafts or floats.

no ball, or toys, no extra

pairs of anything.

just two sets of clothes.

one for the beach

and one

to go out to eat.

gas it up

and go.

i know, beware

i know

before i know. i can sense it.

smell it.

feel it

in the air.

the tingling of spine,

the raised

hair.

i know

what's coming,

where it is,

and who.

be careful around me.

i know.

beware.

her sky cap

my suitcase

is small.

a few necessary items.

sweaters

for the cold.

shorts for the warm

walking shoes.

one dress shirt for dinner.

a toothbrush.

a razor.

some cash and i'm

done.

and then i see the sky

cap

with her luggage,

her skipping

not far behind.

truly larks

as dogs

do,

leaving their mark,

how

many carve or spray

their name

onto walls,

into bark.

we all want to be

remembered

in some way.

but knowing

deep within,

that such thoughts

are truly

larks.

interest wains

the interest

wains,

slips from your fingers,

as fish

do

once

great in the sun, scales

ablaze

with color.

the cold new life

from

the deep pond.

interest wains,

as you let

it go back

to from where 

it comes.

deleting poetry

i get down on my

hands

and knees and scrub

the mold

from the tub.

i go to the fridge next

and throw away

three half empty

ketchup bottles

and two

old pickle jars.

not to mention, six

bottles of salad dressing

i never use.

i dust.

vacuum.

beat a rug against the back

fence.

laundry.

wash and fold. put away.

i get the cobwebs

out of the basement.

stack books,

rearrange the clutter.

a place for everything.

then at last i go to the poetry

i've written on here

and delete about a hundred

poems i'd written,

no longer needed

therapy.

a clean sweep of angry

and revengeful

prose.

no trace, no crumb, no history

of the past.

the beating of a dead horse

at last over.

may it all rest in peace.

next.

get up now

she calls me

in the wee hours of morning.

do you see this?

she says.

what?

i'm sleeping, see what?

the sun rising.

the sun coming up.

you have to get up now

and look

out the window.

it's amazing.

okay, i tell her. in a few

minutes.

it'll be too late then, she

says.

get up now.

you're missing a fabulous

sunrise.

jiminy crickets,

i tell her. throwing off the blankets.

you know, i'm really thinking

about blocking

your number.

minor glee

i look for puddles now

to walk in,

to ride through,

to steer the car into.

the larger the better.

the splash,

the sound it makes.

the mess of mud

and water.

the wet shoes, the soggy

socks.

with no mother at

home to scold me,

i'm five again with

not major, but minor

glee.

it'll come up

it'll come up in conversation.

i make sure

of that.

i earmark it,

put a note

inside

my brain, a yellow sticker

on my forehead.

i write

it in ink on the hand i use

for talking.

oh it'll come up,

don't worry about that.

the paper route

the policeman

stood

over my dog,

his black gun catching

the low

light of sunrise,

and as i ran

home

with my wagon,

still half full of newspapers,

tears

in my eyes.

i heard the shot behind me.

i shook my

mother awake to tell her

what happened.

the car

that ran the dog over.

she put me

to bed,

wiped the tears

and held me,

then went out to finish

my

route.

bland cooking

her saltless

cooking.

no sugar, no pepper,

no

exotic seasoning.

each

slab of meat,

piece of fish,

strand

of poultry

stayed bland under

her hand.

but it looked good

on the plate,

as she did.

i hope

you understand.

over the green sea

muscled clouds. hung out

over the green

sea.

fat

as mother's dumplings,

thick

as cotton.

full of nothing

but promises

and sweet dreams

when

it's time to lay your

head down,

hands beneath chin,

clasped

in rote prayer.

remember the sun

the rain will stop,

i promise,

i tell the child staring

out the window.

hand

on his shoulder.

really?

he says.

it looks like it may

never stop.

look at the puddles.

the wind.

the sky is so grey.

trust me,

i tell him.

you'll see.

you'll see, the sun will have

its day.

a lot on my mind lately

she cuts off

the foot of one of her torn

fishnet

stockings

and says, use this for

a lint trap.

i told her about the overflow

in the pipe

when i did the wash.

i'd completely

forgotten about

the lint clogging up

the works.

there was water all

over the place.

nobody ever schooled

me on

lint traps. plus,

i've been very busy.

i've had a lot on my

mind lately

with

Netflix and the Johnny

Depp trial.

measuring coffee beans

for the grinder.

the coin collector

my brother still

has

all his coin collections

in the

blue hard

folders

that we got for christmas

when we

were kids.

old Lincoln pennies,

the mercury dimes,

the buffalo

nickels,

Kennedy half dollars,

still with

that silver shine.

whereas

my books are empty.

the ice cream truck

haven taken all of mine.

the plunging market

i cringe at the falling market.

ten thousand,

twenty,

thirty,

fifty

and beyond.

it's a rock falling

down

a well

with no bottom.

a cup with a hole.

i take a peak under

my mattress

and sigh,

this won't last long.

the bright orange robe

they strive

for the absence of ego,

of self,

to empty themselves

of the world,

losing attachments 

to all things.

and then they shave

their heads

and put on a bright

orange robe,

that screams

look at me.

denying oneself

whatever

you starve yourself of,

it's what

you want.

right now,

my heart is set on a slice

of pepperoni

pizza,

with hills and valleys

of mozzarella

cheese,

peppers,

hot from the wood

stove

in Kensington.

am I wrong?

touch this,

she says. holding out her

mink

covered arm.

soft?

sure is, i tell her.

very soft.

she looks deeper

into my

eyes and says,

i know what you're

thinking.

am i wrong?

the yellow field

in the field

that stretches warm

and yellow

before the trees,

before

the darkness of green,

where

the hills rise

blue,

there's life, there's

life

being born

and dying.

but this is not news

for you.

by the time we got to woodstock

it didn't really

work

out

the whole peace and love

thing

back in the sixties.

it was a nice

idea.

free love,

drugs,

booze, music. art.

finding one's

inner self.

namaste and all that

b.s.,

but at some point you

have to go

to work and make

some money.

love me two times

it's a strong

cup

of coffee.

i'm shaking at the end

of it.

my knees are weak.

one

more for the road.

i tell her.

sure,

she says

and pours.

her artwork

it's a beautiful

cobweb

that stretches across

the yard,

from chair

to fence.

it gleams wet in

the early

morning sun.

how proud she must

be of her art.

all night long,

weaving

her trap

for the unsuspecting

ones

that come along.

reborn

new tires

on the old bike,

new brakes,

new cables.

a new saddle to sit on.

a new shiny

bell to ring.

new grips,

new chain.

just the frame remains

the same.

you can go

home again,

with a little help

from

friends.

it was a real basement

it was a real basement.

tiled floor.

casement windows

leaking

light from

the yard above.

the cinder blocks of

uncovered walls.

a furnace,

a wash sink

in one corner.

the washer and dryer

wobbling

beside one another.

all pipes exposed.

boxes of

papers, books.

children's clothes.

coats

on hangers from long

ago.

you could smell

the years,

the dust,

the mildew and mold.

you could feel time passing

as your feet

walked across

the floor,

bone cold.

it was real basement.

are we there yet?

are we there yet,

i asked as a child in the back

of my

father's

Chevrolet.

he adjusted the mirror

to look

back at me,

and shook his head.

no,

not yet, he said.

and now when i ask that

question,

to myself.

it's same answer.

no.

not yet.

keep driving.

keep going.

straight ahead.

the olive branch

i put out the olive

branch.

many branches.

few take them.

few want

to put the past behind.

forgiveness

and compassion

are futile.

oh well.

you did your best.

there's no reasoning

with

an unbridled ego.

your own drum

it's not

a drum in the distance.

it's

your heart

finding

your own pace

in the world.

juggling

joy and fear,

the balance

of days behind, and

those yet

to come.

you hear

it.

you know its beat.

don't ask me to help you

let's make a deal.

handshake

on it.

when you move don't ask

me to help you.

and when i move,

i won't ask you.

there's not enough pizza

and beer

to make it right.

i've carried enough

dressers,

and mattresses

and clothes

up

apartment stairs.

dishes in boxes.

shoes

and shirts.

sofas and chairs.

i've loaded books

into trucks,

the trunks of cars.

pictures,

and lamps.

i've made the last move,

hopefully,

the last one

for a long while.

we're going there now, are we?

it's not worry,

or concern, but observational

amusement

at how

the body

alters over time.

the crepe skin.

loose

and dry,

the knees bent.

the hair

now silver.

the teeth, two chins.

how strange

we 

change

from birth until

death.

oh really now, you

say

to yourself

in front of the morning

mirror.

we're going

there now,

are we?

finding consistency

i tend to vacillate.

not unlike

like

a pendulum, i swing back

and forth

with my take

on love,

or hate.

forgiveness

and unforgiving.

my opinions vary,

almost

change with the weather.

i'm both weak and strong

from minute

to minute.

consistency

doesn't last too long. 

when you know nothing

when you realize that 

you know nothing,

or very little,

it's a good start,

it's a place where you

survey the field

and strike the shovel

into the ground.

your boot pressing down.

you overturn the dirt,

you dig.

this is where you begin

to learn.

the sound of sirens

with the sound of sirens

out the window

comes

a question mark.

what is it?

death,

a crash,

a shooting.

something on fire?

what precipitates

the rush

of police and firetrucks

down

the road.

it's new york city

all day

around here

lately.

a ray of sunshine

it's a glum

day.

grey,

wet, cold.

a throw away day,

but you make the best

of it.

you find

a ray of sunshine

in a new book,

an old friend,

a love

that

comes your way.

they've widened the doors

unusually hungry, i

stop by I hop

early in the morning.

i see that they've widened

the doors,

double doors now

to allow

for entry.

the plates are bigger too.

they've reinforced

the floors

because of the weight.

there's a conveyor

belt of food.

i see a pyramid of eggs

and waffles,

pancakes too

next to a barrel of whipped

cream. there's

a gas station pump full

of maple syrup.

i hear the sizzle of bacon

and sausage

as animals are slaughtered

in the kitchen.

the waitress

puts a bib around me

and loosens my

belt as i go to my trough

to order

a number two.

two eggs, bacon, toast

and diet juice.

the teacher next door

i see the english

teacher next door.

it's nine a.m.

and she's stoned out of her mind

already.

eating

a brownie

on her front porch

in her underwear.

hey sugar, she says,

as she sees me leaving the house.

i hear

music playing

from her phone.

the grateful dead.

where you going?

to work, i yell back.

stop by later, i'm off today.

it's casual

friday.

i called in sick.

i need a break from those

damn kids.

i see that, i tell her,

adjusting my tie,

and sipping my coffee.

open all day, she says,

laughing.

you have a good day now.

i'll save

you some brownies.

okay, i tell her.

have fun.

something is in the water

if you've ever had an argument

or even

a discussion

with a crazy person,

by the end of it, you too will

be a giant

cup of crazy.

there is no rational thinking.

no compromise,

no middle

ground.

you shake your head and

frown.

these people are college

educated,

good jobs, families,

what's gone wrong?

something is in the water,

that they're not

telling us about.

i miss him

his new

wife

makes him march downtown

in the women's rights

demonstration.

i ask

him to go play basketball

with me,

but

he can't.

a bike ride later,

lunch

and a beer?

sorry, he says. but

i'm protesting today

for abortion,

or pro choice, 

equal pay or something.

it's not clear.

we're laying out

our clothes now,

trying to figure out

what to wear.

i can't find my pink

head band.

for better or worse

when he was

young

i ran across room and swiped

at his bottom

as he began

to push a screwdriver

into a socket.

he cried.

i held him

and told him what

not to do.

the danger of his

actions.

it was easier then.

but now it's his choice

what he does

with his life.

for better or worse,

it's hard but it's he

that must choose.

then the clock struck twelve

the house was

never cleaner, the meals

never more

exotic and delicious than

when her

parents came to visit.

her sister too.

the good china came out.

the best wine.

the music queued.

candles were lit. no clutter

to be found,

each counter had a shine.

and her too.

the radiant smile,

the new dress,

a new hair style.  she was

on her best behavior for

a few hours,

life almost seemed normal

for those short

stretches of time.

his last boat

his first boat mysteriously

sank

while tied to the dock,

the second

one caught fire,

and the third one was

stolen

by some

pirate.

he has a raft now that

he rows

around the lake.

the insurance money,

safely

tucked away.

the constant dripping

i'm tired

of plumbing. of leaks

and drips,

of toilets

running.

sinks

clogged up,

the broken spigot

that won't

turn.

failed washers,

water heaters no longer

working. i'm

tired

of the plumber

arriving

with his wrenches,

the key

under the mat,

the check

on the counter.

his footprints

up

and down

the stairs, his

greasy hands,

everywhere.

i'm tired of plumbing,

but it's

the life i live.

drip by drip.

the glow in the dark

her glow

in the dark 

wax statue of Jesus

on

the dresser, did what for her?

save her,

keep her safe from

all the bad

in the world?

hardly.

but her faith never

faltered,

despite

all.

the open window

is it the cold that awakens

you

in the early morning,

too soon

to rise.

too soon for a day

to begin.

is it the cold, the window

left open

in the other room

that stirs you

to open your eyes

and reach over to touch

her,

the place

empty again?

the treasure map

who doesn't

like a treasure map?

the mystery of a rolled

piece of parchment,

with arrows

and x's

marked on it.

who doesn't like the thrill

of the game,

finding

things hidden.

what's out of sight?

each clue, each puzzle

solved

getting the heart

pumping,

giving you more than

what

the nine to five

gives

to your life.

loaded dice

yes.

i had a yo yo.

a slinky,

a hulu hoop.

skates,

a skate board, a bike,

a bat

and ball, a leather

glove,

a football,

a tennis racket,

a basket ball

and 

a flute, that i never

learned to play.

but my favorite

thing

was the pair of loaded

dice i bought

on 9th street,

a see through

set of dice,

plastic

green.

plan C

we discuss

tomorrow. if it rains, if it doesn't rain.

we make

a plan

B to go along with a plan A.

i suggest a plan

C.

which involves sleeping

in.

coffee a paper,

and 

extra curricular activities

while we

listen

to the rain.

body language

we tap our

foot,

pull at our hair,

grind

our teeth, crack

our knuckles,

we shift our chin,

or stroke

our knees.

scratch.

we are looking for

something,

anything

to soothe ourselves.

to make

the anxiety

leave.

black and white tv

the first family

on the block

with a color tv invited us over

to watch

the wonderful world of disney

on sunday night.

and we did.

sitting on the long couch.

the mother

putting out

nuts and chips,

soft drinks.

we were washed clean

and neat

for the event.

our mother on the edge

of her seat too.

and then we went home,

all of us

sad.

knowing it would be forever

or never

before we'd see on our

tv

the colors of the rainbow,

from red

to blue.

blood in the water

there is no starting over.

not really.

you can pretend to wipe

the slate

clean.

start fresh.

to erase the past 

and pain as if

you're the ocean

washing

across the words

in sand.

but you can't.

the blood is in the water.

so live with it.

what's the world coming to?

the neighbor asks

me

in the morning as i 

go to my car

if i  heard

the bangs last night.

they sounded

like gunshots,

she says.

do you know anything

about it?

bang bang bang, she says.

her eyes

wide with fear.

and screaming too.

what's the world

coming to, she asks.

to an end,

i tell her.

to an end.

can i sit over there, please?

when i hear

others argue, out and about,

in cafes,

or pubs,

love gone,

sitting outdoors in

the glory

of spring,

their words not mincing,

but full of

anger

and sting,

i remember well, how it was.

and politely exit 

to find

another seat.

long before then

staring

down to the yard, i watched

her

knees deep

in the spring dirt,

blackened

with new

soil.

her trowel in hand,

her spade.

her seeds.

she looked old

and tired, turning her face

up to a rising sun.

the flowers would

grow,

but she would

never see them,

she'd be gone

long before then.

no different

the rich

are no different than you

or me.

sure

there's plenty of

possessions,

but at the close of day,

as we do.

they leave it all for

others

to sift

through, taking

nothing with

them in the end

but a life

now spent.

restraint

having spoken

most of my complaints

at an earlier age,

i stand

in silence,

sit with my arms out.

and welcome

the new day,

for what it is.

i've managed some sort

of restraint

at rage.

my empathy for the stapler

there are a lot of things 

i haven't used

in a long time.

that stapler for instance.

the one i stole

from my office job

when i got laid off

for being lazy and incompetent.

too busy

with socializing,

but that's a whole other story.

back to the stapler.

it's simple and black,

heavy,

full of staples,

just sitting there, dusty,

waiting for a few

sheets of paper to join together.

my empathetic

nature makes me get up

and find paper.

i slide two sheets

under the mouth

of the black

stapler, like i used to do

back in my office days,

and give it a whack.

there you go.

back in business.

someone who knows someone who knows someone....

my Hollywood

friend

who is friends

with the landscaper

who

knows someone

who knows

a kid on the Disney

channel

and once

did a voice over

for a toilet paper

commercial,

has a white leopard coat

that he

wears

when he's out and about

and wants

to be seen.

platform shoes too.

he keeps telling me he's

one audition

away

from hitting the big time.

it kills him to not be

recognized

on the street.

where's the paparazzi,

he says?

i'm here.

where did you get that chicken?

i'm suspicious

of people

with chickens.

what's up with that?

the stores are full of eggs.

eggs

of all kinds.

brown, white,

small

large,

extra large.

double yolks.

organic,

grass fed,

and free range.

what are you doing with

a chicken

in your back yard?

what's wrong

with you?

forensic psychology

finally 

i've received my degree

in forensic

psychology.

experienced in all forms

of abuse,

from childhood

into adulthood.

relationships are my wheel

house.

i put the shingle

on the front door.

open for business.

but i'm only

taking

three patients per day,

despite the long

line

down the sidewalk.

one in the morning.

one

near noon,

and the last around four,

before

i take my afternoon

nap.

the first day goes well,

expect for when they keep

talking

and i have to stop them to

tell them

my story, what happened

to me.

that's nothing i tell them.

listen to this.

they have no choice,

but to listen,

plus i'm getting paid.

two negatives

we agree

on what we don't like.

so, do

two negatives

make a positive?

she hates

the same food as i do.

beans

and liver,

organ meat of

any kind.

cotton

candy we both

despise.

she dislikes the opera.

thank

god for that.

rap music makes her ill.

me too.

hiking is not

her thing,

or jumping out of planes,

or camping

by the fire.

hallelujah.

we won't be attending

the Kentucky derby

party, to wear big hats

and drink mint juleps.

we're so alike,

it's true.

high rise blues

i can't live in a high rise

building.

the doorman

always

in your business.

the elevator

full of surprises,

good and bad.

the smell of cabbage

in the hallway.

the roar

of vacuums all day.

the leaks,

the noise.

babies crying.

the symphony of bed

springs.

new neighbors, old

neighbors.

the ambulance outside

pulling

out the sick and dying,

or dead.

pigeons on the window sills.

a new assessment added

for the balcony repairs.

the manager with her

keys

at your door, yelling

to turn the music down.

people moving in,

moving out,

the vans

at the loading dock.

the freight elevator.

the lady

at the desk telling you

that a guest stopped

by and left

you have a package. 

hadn't seen that one before,

she says.

the wedding store

the sign

says

going out of business.

it's a big sign,

with giant red letters.

i go in.

maybe there's

something in here i

want.

a bargain

of some sort.

there are rows of wedding

dresses.

some new, some

old.

some with cake or wine

stains on

them.

some torn.

black tuxedos, too,

grey,

some with the velvet collar

that i fancy.

getting married?

the woman at the door

asks me.

hell know, i tell her.

but 

i could use a new tuxedo

though for when i

go out drinking

and gambling.

right, she says.

weren't you here a few years

ago?

nah, not me. no.

you have me mistaken for

someone else.

throw in a box of that

confetti too, i tell her,

as i try on my new suit.

time they came clean

i don't trust

valet parking. or the maid

in my

room.

are you going

through

my luggage?

the guy at jiffy lube,

what are

you really

doing

in my car with the hood

up,

are you really

checking

my filters?

the cook

in kitchen, are you

dropping

my biscuits,

touching

my Brussel sprouts

with your

fingers?

and the doctor, what

do you 

really know about me.

what's on that chart.

what are

you not sharing,

it's time 

that all of you came clean.

hot soup

like most

soups

it had a lot in it.

salt

and pepper,

mysterious items,

vegetables,

fish

or meat.

like love,

it was a thick

broth

at first.

you had to keep

stirring.

raising

or lowering the heat.

in the end

you took small sips

off the hot

spoon,

and drank

from the saucers lip.

the second hand

strange how

slow

the clock moves when you don't

want to be

somewhere.

when you're

stuck in a room,

a car,

a place

where you don't belong.

how hard

it is for the second hand

to make

it up the hill

to turn.

the weight of loss

i see

his sadness, feel the weight

of his

sorrow.

six years,

he says.

she's been gone that long.

i see her

cup

on the counter.

her yarn,

her seat on the sofa,

beside

his.

he hasn't moved on.

at night,

before

closing eyes,

he still leans over

to kiss

her.

but she's gone.

the gas light

the gas

light, on the far end

of the lot,

close

to the woods where

the fox

lean out

when

the sun goes down,

flickers.

it's a soft

light,  a yellow ribbon

of flame.

tossing shadows,

lighting

the eyes

of animals untamed

scrubbing

the scrubbing

helps

somehow, takes my mind

off

what's on my

mind.

on my knees,

back bent

to it.

scrub, scrub, scrub.

i'll put

a shine

on this life yet.

large bottle of texas pete

i'm still on

my first bottle of hot sauce.

texas pete.

the extra large

bottle with the little

cowboy

on the front.

i've had it

since the late 80's.

rarely used, obviously.

the woman who bought

it for me,

used to put

it on her eggs,

she'd make

a criss cross pattern

with the hot sauce.

i wonder

where she is now.

i still have the sauce.

i don't remember her name,

but i remember

her legs.

please call me

the trial

goes on. she lied.

she

punched and threw

things.

cheated.

abused

him

emotionally,

with words with violence.

with threats.

and yet

he stayed, hoping

for the best.

here's my number,

please call me 

mr. depp,

having been

there,

i'll show you

how to get out

without losing your head.

foraging

i find a box

of saltine crackers way back

on the top

shelf of

the kitchen cupboard.

i need the chair

to stand on

to reach the open 

box.

the untied sleeves,

opened,

and stale.

each while square,

a salted

wafer,

dry and brittle to the tongue.

who left them

there?

and what's this?

tomato soup in a can?

not mine either.

days into years

how quickly

we forget,

time lying down its

days

into years

upon

memory,

like a blanket of

fallen

leaves,

all gets covered

and then

snow arrives.

come spring, once

more.

it's green.

life is fast, life is slow

from here,

i can see everything

there is

to see

in this small town.

there's the church,

the stores,

the road in and the road

heading out.

schools

and gas stations.

a movie theater

and the town square.

you could spend your

life here

and never leave.

be born,

get married have

children

of your own, then grow

old.

the cemetery

is there too, waiting.

life is fast.

life is slow.

famous doodles

i take my doodles

down to

the New Yorker Magazine

and tell

them to make me

an offer.

who are you?

they ask, picking up

the phone for

security.

nobody, i tell them.

i'm not even on youtube,

or tik tok,

but take a look at my

doodles.

i did this one

yesterday on a napkin

while i was

waiting for the waitress

to bring me the bill,

it has a Picasso

feel to it.

don't you think?

the upside down

bull, with big eyes

and a woman's breast

beside it.

yeah, it's nice, very nice,

but you need to

be someone before your

doodles

have value.

come back when you're

famous. okay?

sure, sure, you can keep

this one

if you want it.

nah, it's okay.

what needs water

there

is plenty in the world, that

doesn't need

our help

in growing.

most trees

in the woods.

wild flowers,

mold,

and algae.

rust is another thing,

left unattended,

it keeps going.

the only

thing

we need to water really,

is friendship,

and love.

we're all one

i go to the train station

to watch

the trains

roll in and roll out.

i stand on the broad

platform,

and wave

to the people in the windows,

they wave back.

old people, children.

i'm sad,

they're leaving, but

happy

for the ones arriving,

coming home,

perhaps.

it doesn't matter

that we're strangers

we want people to be

sad for us,

be happy for us.

we're all one like that.

bring the whipped cream

i wake

up and decide it's time to

start giving back,

although

for the life of me i can't think

of a single thing

that's been

given to me.

not from anyone.

parent, child, sibling,

or friend.

but i go down

to the local hospital

just the same.

my skills are limited,

i'm very nervous

around babies

and old people,

and faint at the sight

of needles

or blood

so they find a spot

for me

in the cafeteria.

i'm in the kitchen now

filling

little paper

cups with strawberry jello.

stop by sometime.

bring the whipped cream.

the flip flop world

almost

everyone is in their pajamas

on saturday

and sunday,

whether at church,

or the local

market.

flip flops

and baggy sweats.

no longer

buttoned down

or zipped up in pants

and dresses, tops

and blouses.

we all look like we're

about to enter

a 5k walk and run

or some lolly

gagging

sporting event

were donuts are served

at the end.

or ready

for bed in our baggy

pjs,

a cotton blend.

age and height

each

kid marked in height and age,

on the kitchen

door frame.

a straight line in ink.

Betsy, Joe,

Sally

and James.

growing, as kids do

towards their

own lives,

and now with one

brush

of paint.

it's gone.

the house sold, and

another

child's head

pressed to wood,

in height

and name, life does

goes on.

book without an end

i trace

the spill of coffee

to remember

where i put the book down.

ahh, there

it is

in basement,

on the table, the far

chair

by the window.

i see

the brown dried

spot

on the last page read,

i try again,

to get

through this book

without an

end.

hazards of the job

i have to move

the bed

and other furniture in order

to paint

the far

wall.

she wants it pink.

but out rolls a sex toy

or two.

battery and electric.

one has

a solar panel (interesting).

there's a zorro mask,

a feather boa,

a whip, a pair of handcuffs.

a polaroid camera,

and a blonde

wig with pigtails,

not to mention

an enormous squirt bottle

of biodegradable lube.

i go back out to the truck

to get my

latex gloves

and mask,

my hazmat suit,

to delicately slide all things

out of view.

just sharks being sharks

there are neither

good sharks,

nor bad sharks.

they just have a lot of sharp

teeth

and an insatiable

appetite

to eat

whatever is in front

of them.

another fish,

an errant leg,

an arm

a hand.

some dope swimming

out too far.

makes no never mind.

just sharks, being sharks.

bon Appetit.

biblical times

LA

is burning, but no one cares.

the Hollywood

sign

is on fire.

an earthquake

has sucked the lives

out of millions.

famine

and pestilence

are everywhere.

locusts

and the plague

have arrived.

the ocean

has swept away most

of the west coast.

no one cares.

the streets are crowded

with people

running wild.

now it's time for the planes

to drop

great boxes of

soap

from the sky.

on second thought

don't do it,

the neon light in your head

flashes.

whatever

you're thinking

of doing

don't do it.

don't react.

don't say it, don't go there.

don't even

think about

it.

back away.

keep your mouth shut.

put your hands

in your pockets

and slowly

go away.

waiting on Jane

i lost

track of Jane,

from

Montreal.

she owes me some maple

syrup.

she promised

that when she returned

from up north that

i'd have a bottle

of syrup.

the real stuff

with a picture of a maple

leaf on the front.

i'm sitting here with

my waffles

going cold.

the butter old.

the bacon

brittle,

waiting for Jane

to knock at my door.

the old bike

the old bike.

twenty years old.

i let it go

for a mere fraction of its

original

price.

a dollar

i tell the man.

it's yours for a dollar.

i don't tell him about the countless

hours

i rode it

through rain and ice,

snow

and wind.

my magic carpet

ride

from whatever drama

i had landed

in.

take it, it's yours now.

treat it well.

as it 

took care of me.

oh what a world, what a world....

there are good witches

and bad

witches.

amber having nothing

on the later.

i''ve known

both.

i've seen the glow

of one,

and the darkness of the other,

the house

landing on her,

with the striped sock

of her foot

sticking out.

i've

heard the angelic voice

of the north,

and

endured the cackling of

the green skinned

witch

of the east.

the one i threw a bucket

of water on.

get over yourself

the rusted

nail

doesn't find you.

the stiff

sharp point of a spike

uplifted

from the floor

by age

and time,

the softening of things.

you find it.

with the sole

of your foot.

it's not

fate, or karma,

destiny,

it's none of those

mystical things,

it's just a nail

you stepped on.

get over yourself,

the world

here

and beyond does not

revolve

around you.

will you vote for me

the man

at the door asks me if i'm going

to vote

in the upcoming election.

i shrug.

maybe, i tell him.

but i pretty much

don't like either side

of the aisle.

oh, he says, you're independent.

you could say that,

i guess.

i'm also hungry

and i've got a pie in the oven

that i have

to check on.

he puts his foot in the door

as i''m about

to close it.

will you read these pamphlets

and think about

voting for me?

i'm running for a delegate

seat in the third

district

in the southern

part of the county.

sure i tell him.

but i really have to check on

that pie.

it's next tuesday,

he says. his foot still in the door.

i push hard

to close it,

crunching his foot.

i can hear the sound of a bone

breaking.

finally he pulls away.

i look out the window as 

i set the pie to cool

on the sill.

i see the man limping

to the next door, straightening

his bow tie.

it's legal, man

you can smell

the weed burning on the streets now.

people are

happy

to smoke the dope.

store bought

or off the street.

it's legal, they say and smile,

wandering about.

holding

the toxic fumes in their

precious lungs,

as the music plays.

blissfully stupid once more,

just like the old days,

the memory cells

and cognitive functions

slipping tragically

away.

life lessons

get a good grip,

your father says, as you hold the bat

in your hand,

about to take

a swing

at the ball

for the first time.

wrap your hands around

the barrel.

feel the weight of it,

swing it back

and forth,

get the feel for it,

turn your hips,

relax

and breathe.

dig in,

focus on what's to come.

then swing.

before and after

we divide our

lives

in before and after segments.

before school,

before

marriage,

before a job.

before the move,

before someone was born,

or died.

before the war,

before

is a dividing line.

everything that comes after

that seems different

somehow.

a wonderful day

it was a day

when nothing happened.

you went to work

with

no surprises.

the traffic was light.

you drank

coffee.

you listened to the radio.

you finished the job,

got paid,

then went to the bank.

you drove home

to no messages, no mail.

no packages

on the porch.

you took a shower,

took a nap,

had dinner.

watched a show,

read for a while before

going to sleep.

it was wonderful day

of nothing

happening.

yearly inspection

i give

myself a complete inspection.

standing in front of the mirror

in my bvd's.

emotionally stable.

no drama.

a pleasant and peaceful 

disposition.

a nice healthy glow with

no waxy buildup.

most cuts are healed.

i look at the scars on my hand,

my arm,

my chin.

bones are

in place.

the crick in the knee not too

bad today.

muscles sore, but nothing

torn.

a few strands of hair

still in place.

a few real teeth hanging in there.

no redness

of throat,

the tongue is a nice pinkish

hue.

i can still touch my toes.

blood pressure.

a ok. blowing my nose is down

to only

fifty times a day.

but i'll live.

i place the sticker on my forehead,

and off i go.

maybe a brownstone on the west side

i couldn't live

there,

i think.

despite my love of the park,

the museums,

the village,

and hot pastrami

on rye

from katz's deli

on orchard, but

i'd need millions.

i'd need a driver,

a butler,

a doorman,

a chef,

a housekeeper.

i'd need everything

i don't have.

and then there's

the crime,

the traffic,

the tourists,

the crowds.

so i think

i'll just stay where i am,

for now.

before Dallas

was it ever

that way.

church on sunday.

the corner store

with a cooler of cold bottes

of grape nehi

and orange soda.

the neighbors greeting

you with a nod,

a tip of the hat,

a wave.

did you ever know every

kid

within ten miles

of where you lived.

playing stick ball in the street.

four square

and hide and seek.

did you camp

in the back yard, disappear

for the day

to forage the woods,

to roll up

your pants

to walk in a stream.

did you fish

in the river with your friends.

did your father

wash his car

in the driveway

with a cold

beer in hand. his radio on.

was that your mother

whistling

at the clothes line, 

a pin at the ready between

her lips.

were dogs ever on

a leash,

did your parents help

you

with your shoe

laces,

your homework,

stuffing your lunch box

with good things

to eat.

did you wash behind

your ears, brush your teeth.

say your prayers

before you fell asleep.

it all seems like a dream,

all of it

occurring before Dallas,

before 1963.

the twilight zone

it seemed like

every year or so my mother

would be

bringing home

another baby.

she'd be gone

for a few days,

and then home again,

with another kid

crying

in her arms.

i could hardly hear the tv

sometimes.

watching

my favorite shows,

the outer limits, or

the twilight zone.

dinner is served

i knew how to make

a peanut butter sandwich

as a kid.

using the chair

to climb onto the counter

to reach the cabinet where

the bread

and jar was.

i took out

two slices

of wonder bread,

grape jelly from the fridge,

and with a broad

knife went to work.

spreading

the peanut butter onto

a slice, then

the jelly.

aligning the two

pieces and

pressing down.

not too much

coming out the sides.

a pat or two

for good measure.

it kept me alive

in those formative years.

if i wanted to be fancy

i'd make a diagonal cut

from one corner to the other.

and if there was milk

to wash it down,

that was gold

no green thumb

i can't say that i have

a green thumb.

i'm not good at growing things,

or keeping

them alive,

watered,

weeded, turned

towards the sun.

once they're cut

and in a vase, or dirt pot,

or rising from

the ground,

they're on their own,

just like me

when i was born.

packing lightly

the worst night

of my

life

was spent in a hotel room

on route one

trying to get away

from someone

i no longer wanted

a part of. it had

thin walls,

coughing neighbors,

arguing

smoking.

the headboards

banging,

i lay there fully dressed,

shoes still on,

listening

to people at the end

of their rope

deciding what to do

with their lives.

at one in the morning,

i grabbed

my toothbrush

and left.

i figured i still had more

rope to use.

full of bats

the wreck, abandoned.

the house

with broken windows,

the open door,

the roof

collapsed.

the yard unattended

to,

the rusted

fence,

the broken gate,

the tilt of the chimney

missing

bricks.

full of bats

not all things, or people

can be saved.

at some point it's best

to move on

and to not look back.

skin deep

i'm not reckless

with fruit

like i used to be.

no longer lugging home

the full watermelon.

the cantaloupes,

or three pears

in a bag.

i'm off the black berries,

sour as all get out.

the strawberries

never sweet.

the grapes like wet

stones

impossible to break.

the bananas brown

before you leave.

it all looks good

in the shiny light 

of the store.

buy two get the third

free.

but it's so true,

as i've learned the hard way,

that beauty

is only skin deep.

the cat on the sill

she's greta

garbo in the corner chair

of the breezeway,

drinking coffee.

reading

her Russian novel.

aloof

and distant.

detached from the world

around her.

she's a cat on the sill,

not a part of it.

blue eyed

and dark hair.

she's a mystery,

an enigma,

you try hard not to stare.

the history of floors

as the detective

leans down

with his trained eye,

he sees that

there's a history to this floor,

this carpet,

this throw rug,

the wood,

the steps going

up and down.

even the walls give clues

as to what's

gone on here.

the wine spills, the coffee

cup tilted,

the knicks and cuts,

a hole in the wall

punched out.

the bruises

of things

dropping down.

splinters of glass,

a shell casing

of lipstick,

an exit note torn in half

a stain of blood, that's 

the only

story now that seems

to count.

jump shot from the corner

after playing

continuously for nearly fifty years

on black top

courts,

basketball,

i now dream about it.

it's replaced,

Betty

and Joan, 

Linda

and Suzette.

Debbie.

i don't know if that's a good

thing

or a bad,

but i can once again

leap

and hit any shot

from anywhere on

the floor.

i'm in the air.

in flight.

my aim is true, truer

than any

love i've ever had

before.

the peephole

thank God for the peephole

it has saved

me so many times

over the years.

a disgruntled ex,

a salesman,

a politician,

or mormon wanting

me to join

their cause.

i look out and sigh,

i hold my breath,

and drop to the floor,

i inch my way back

to the couch,

but not before

turning the dead bolt

on the door.

things settle down

things settle down,

at last,

the drama

of winter

is gone, new grass arrives,

green

as ever.

trees fill up.

the sun is warm.

it's hard to even remember

what was

wrong

on days

like this, stretched out

on the soft

new lawn.

Blanket

the old dog,

white and brown,

with a strange name.

Blanket.

he or she,

yet to be determined

sleeps

all day as i work around

the house.

moving

furniture,

painting,

plastering,

hanging paper on

the accent wall.

the dog lifts his head

on occasion

at some loud sound

and blinks

at me,

then lies back down.

the water

bowl

is there, the food.

the walker comes at

noon.

au revoir

he's in his bonus

years,

the gravy

years.

no longer a need

and longing

for money,

shelter,

or car.

all pretense is over.

no wishing

on a star.

there's food, a bed,

and love.

the rest

is in the past.

au revoir.

the lesser of two evils

did you vote,

he asks.

no,

i respond.

when there's someone worth

voting for,

then i will.

well, then

don't complain

he says,

when things go wrong.

shut up

i tell him.

i'll complain as long

and hard as

i want to.

the lesser of two evils

is never

a choice of mine.

a generous helping

it's a generous

helping

of affection

and caring,

almost

more than i can eat,

or drink.

consume.

she's too much,

too giving,

is she too good

to be true?

my lawyer

when you hear

someone

speak of their lawyer as

my lawyer,

as in

my plumber,

my electrician,

my painter,

or landscaper,

beware.

if he or she is part

of the staff,

on call at the top

of the speed dial

list,

you're in for a long day,

if things

go amiss.

lowered expectations

i thought

the spoon was stronger

than what it was.

it bent so easily

when i used it to open

a can of paint,

to pry

open the door,

and

to unclog the clogged

sink.

but it failed

and broke in two.

i've lowered my

expectations on spoons

these days,

as i have

with so many other

things,

and people too.

stop, don't tell me

if you stop

watching the news,

stop

tracking

the neighborhood posts,

turn

off the tv

and radio,

discard

the newspaper

on the porch.

don't answer

the phone.

life suddenly seems okay

again.

bread crumbing

the ducks

at the lake see you coming

with your

bag of wonder

bread.

still white and soft,

as gooey

as it was when you were

a child.

the ducks paddle over,

they fly

in from the other side,

they crowd

the shallow water,

splashing their

wings,

honking,

ready

for the bread crumbing

to begin.

seize the nap

some

seize the day, while

others

say

nah,

no thanks, i think i'll

take a nap.

relax.

kick back for a while.

it's been

long one.

the mountain

will be there tomorrow.

cabbage rolls

she was a beauty.

black eyes,

black hair.

lean,

the Lebanese girl i met back

in the late

seventies

at a club called The Dome

on M street.

her mother hated me

because

i'd pull up in front of her house

and beep the horn.

i wasn't going in to

eat Kibbe and cabbage rolls.

the girl could dance.

she smoked.

drank,

cursed and drove a Pontiac

Firebird

with big tires.

but she went to church

every sunday

morning.

no matter where she was,

who she was with, or

how big of a hangover

she had.

it didn't matter.

off she went.

confession and communion.

rinse and repeat

and do it all over

again

the next weekend.

going out for awhile

a good shirt,

a clean

and well pressed shirt,

be it white

or blue.

tucked into

Italian gabardines,

the shine

on the banister shoes.

a shave,

a dab of Geoffrey Beene

on each cheek..

well

there you go.

better,

than you were,

the day before,

aren't you?

he's not the same man i married

his troubles

became hers after a spell

of some brief

placid bliss.

what she never knew

about

him.

she knew now.

how he slept,

taking the blankets,

how he

ate

and dribbled food,

the noises

he would make.

doors

left open, the yard uncut.

he seemed

so different

when they met.

careful with money, polite

and well

kept.

and now this. this.

unshaven.

always with the seat up.

places we've never been

the bird's death

was

an accident, or was it?

flying

fast

into the glass

window,

shut.

his beak struck first

which

must have

surprised him,

was it love that he

saw,

another blue

sky,

a range of trees

reflected.

he seemed to have

gone

faster the closer

he got,

his wings furiously

beating

to take

him where he'd never

been.

so often, at a cost.

you know

the veil,

the fog before your eyes,

the cloak

of

life

is suddenly done.

fallen

to the floor at your

feet.

you know

you know

and you know

all things.

you can smell it,

taste it

in your mouth,

hear it in your ears,

you can

see it in another man's

eyes.

the gig is up.

you know what the game is.

money

love

birth and death.

you've

seen enough to have

it at last

sink in. you've endured.

you know

what's going down,

what is.

what isn't. 

the wool won't be pulled

over

anymore

her obituary

i read

her obituary.

it's not who she was.

she

had a mean streak.

stubborn

and cold at times.

unfaithful.

she pinched her

pennies,

her dimes.

and yet, with the picture

of her in the paper,

the flowers,

the garden,

a youthful smile,

you could almost believe

that she was

never unkind.

the same path

you go back the way

you came.

it's always that way.

the same

trail,

the same path, the woods

new with

itself again.

the steel blue

of the lake, less cold now,

more

gentle

with the warm air.

halfway in,

then out.

you walk.

you walk.

sometimes you almost feel

as if you're

getting somewhere.

making change from the church basket

i'm

at church, when the basket

comes around,

the second

time.

i already put a five

in earlier,

and now

i only have a fifty,

which i need

the change for lunch

and parking

later when i meet Betty

downtown

for brunch and mimosas.

so when the basket

comes to me,

i make change.

leaving a ten, but taking

out two twenties.

this stops

everything. there's gasping.

a woman

beside me faints

and hits her head on the pew.

the priest

comes marching down

the aisle in his

gold trimmed gown

and asks

me what i'm doing.

making change i tell him.

i'm meeting Betty later

and i need

forty bucks. i put ten

in and five in earlier.

a crowd

gathers. an altar boy

throws

a handful of communion

wafers at me,

striking me in the brow.

someone says stone him,

another

says cast him out.

okay, okay, i say, and put

the fifty back in.

jimminy crickets.

i guess i won't be going

back there

for awhile.

a million dollars, pfffft

a million

dollars

is nothing now.

work long and hard

enough and 

who

doesn't have a million dollars?

money

tucked away

for the rainy

day,

or surgeon, or divorce

that comes

your way.

perfectly imperfect

are we all

not

perfectly imperfect?

faults

and misaligned to

some degree

or another.

unbalanced,

incorrect,

no one is a da Vinci

sculpture

or Raphael

portrait.

gravity

and time

takes care of that.

we come up short,

which is

fine.

in the end, God willing

we all

will be

divine.

music to shop by

with his hat 

on the ground,

the guy

in front of the grocery store

is playing

an electric

violin,

but then the music starts

to skip,

so he goes over

to his car

and lifts the needle.

he begins

to play

again.

hardly missing a beat.

moving out day

i'll tell you tomorrow

what i'm

thinking, she says.

if i tell you today it will

come out wrong.

so tomorrow,

we'll sit down

and talk things out, okay?

no,

i tell her.

tell me now or forever

hold your peace.

she laughs.

okay.

i'm leaving you

at the end of the week.

moving out.

excellent.

Saturday is good,

i tell her.

i'll pick up some boxes

for you,

a roll of bubble wrap 

and plenty of tape.

religious thieves

it's a feeding

frenzy

for the thieves

last night.

a slew of cars

broken into.

my mints are gone,

my ice scraper

and a half

eaten candy bar,

my favorite,

almond joy.

my

Simon and Garfunkel best

of cd. is missing,

my carry on coffee

mug

i got  for christmas,

my anthology

of poets

who lost their minds.

my Jesus

statue on the dashboard

too.

religious fellows

i guess.

another war

joining the army

never

seemed like a viable option

when

i was of age.

the uniforms,

the crew cuts,

people yelling at you

all night

all day.

then off to war with a new

gun

in your hand.

off to kill the yellow man

in some jungle

where they were born.

another life on the west coast

she had

a secret life on the west

coast.

i'd see

the cuts

the bruises on her,

lipstick smeared,

her wrists

raw

with rope marks.

her hair

entangled

as she got off the plane.

rough

flight, i'd ask her

as she stood

at the curb,

no, she'd laugh,

and look

away, it was

more the about the landings

that occurred.

jump in

we avoid

the slosh of puddles

where

once we

stepped into them

with joy,

not dodging

the deepest,

or stepping around,

we pounced

upon the filling

void,

as the rain

kept

coming down.

her leather gloves

she shows me

her new

white

leather golf gloves.

the dog

having chew apart

the last pair.

she gives me a light

playful

slap

across the cheek.

they're soft

and sexy at the end

of her slender

arms.

snug as she shimmies

them

down each finger.

i'm doing just

the front nine today,

she says,

so when i get back,

be here.

it's not over yet

i'm concerned

about my father, 

at this age,

ninety-three,

a walker

to steady

his gait,

his eyes watered down

with disease,

his hearing

muted,

and yet

he still eats and drinks,

and lucidly

holds

a conversation about

anything

there is to talk about.

i love him

dearly,

but i can't comply to his

request for

a little blue

pill, to satisfy his

urgings,

with his latest and oldest

new found

date.

just one candle please

we forgo

the candles on the cake now.

it's the right

thing to do

at any age

past thirty or so.

who needs

to know

the number of years

or decades

we've survived

on this earth.

put one candle

in the middle and light it.

blow it out,

then eat

the largest slice

of cake

your stomach

can take.

have they all grown?

where are

the children, the flies

that used to buzz about the courtyard,

the playground?

have they

all grown,

have their short days been

made shorter

by the leash

of parents and home?

where is the round

ball,

the stick bat,

the carboard box

for a base,

the yells and screams, 

as they fought

off the daylight

before being called in.

are they us now?

staring out the windows,

longingly,

remembering

the joy

back then.

the furious cold

as a child

i loved the swimming pool.

the vision

of hope

that it portrayed,

the sun upon

the colored

blue water,

clean

and still,

the safety of a guard,

the rope

at the dangerous deep

end.

so many rules

to keep us in line.

don't run,

don't eat,

no diving off the side.

and then

the ocean

appeared and all order

disappeared

as i ran towards it,

embracing the furious 

cold and mystery 

in a reckless dive.

learning to swim

for many

years

we wrestle with what's to be,

what to do,

who we are,

what the future

holds,

or doesn't.

we rearrange

the deck chairs,

we patch

holes,

we learn how to swim

in case.

and then at last

we float

upon our backs,

or earnings

if some remain,

the sun

before us,

setting strangely

warm

and fast.

saying No to Zen

it's a Zen thing,

i guess.

when you do the dishes,

they tell you to

be in the moment.

do the dishes.

feel the water,

the steam

rising,

the smoothness of glass,

the forks and spoons,

the edge of a knife.

be there,

listen to the clink

of things

as you scrub

and rinse,

and dry, be careful

and deliberate as you

set things aside.

be mindful as you

wash your dishes,

with only that on

your mind.

no.

a mouse strolls by

the cat

on the leash is not happy.

twisting

under

the collar,

wanting the bird in the tree,

the crevice

in the street.

a squirrel,

a fallen leaf.

a mouse strolls by

with a cane

and a hat,

and laughs.

miscellaneous days

they were

crazy times. chaotic,

drinking was involved.

late nights

out.

finding

clothes at the bottom

of my

bed that i didn't recognize.

how do people

get dressed

part of the way,

then leave?

how are you driving

with one heel

on.

no underwear,

in the winter with

a skirt on backwards,

short sleeves.

and those

earrings,

that watch,

that bracelet.

yours?

all into the cardboard

box they go,

marked 

miscellaneous.

eyeglasses and keys.

don't rain, i need the money

i look back on the twenty

nine

or so different

jobs i've had

over a lifetime.

staring

at the pay stubs,

thrilled

with a ten-cent raise.

a Christmas

bonus

of twenty dollars.

a slap on

the back,

an expression of praise.

the factory work,

the yard

work.

construction.

always out in the weather.

the office job,

which was the

worst of them all.

i never slept so well

as i did

in those days.

never worried about

what i ate

or drank, or how late

i stayed out.

invincible, immortal.

just hoping

it wouldn't rain.

a swan song

you let some people go.

you don't

call them

into your office

and politely discharge them

from your

vague friendship,

you just sort of delete

and move on.

fade into the past.

who needs

the drama.

who needs a swan song.

twist off caps

the world

is made harder with twist

off caps

on nearly everything.

i keep

a pair of plyers

and a blow torch

nearby

to open a carton of cream,

the pills,

the toothpaste.

the bread which

is triple wrapped.

the butter is

sealed

inside its little tub,

almost impossible

to open

with a snap.

organic chicken

in parts,

air tight and factory

sealed

with space age plastic.

i need the power saw

for that.

i stick a small pack

of explosives

on

the peanut butter jar

and wait

in the other room 

for it to blow

open.

what's your overhead on the ribeyes?

i hold up

a rib eye steak at the grocery

store

and yell

out the price,

thirty seven dollars.

are you kidding me?

the manager

comes over.

is there a problem,sir,  he

says.

why are you yelling?

do i need to call

security?

i point at the price tag

on this

thin, meager

slab of meat.

thirty seven dollars?

really. for this?

where's the rest of the cow?

then the net goes over

me

and i'm in the paddy wagon.

it's easy, she says

it's easy,

she says. easy.

she counts the times

she's been in love

in her head.

i see her

fold 

her fingers out like

a child

touching each one.

the number

unsaid.

it's over and i begin again.

she smiles.

then looks away

as she turns

her head.

the sunday plumber

with a wrench in

hand

i can easily

sink this house. 

one twist and the pipe

is broken.

and i'm on 

the phone

to Mike. it's sunday

and i have the

buckets and towels.

the mop

all out.

i apologize.

come soon, i plead.

i bake him a cake,

make sandwiches,

i put his favorite

beer

on ice, then

i leave him a pile of

money

on the table,

take it all i tell him.

the key

is under

the mat.

i should have turned

left,

i guess, not right.

what wasn't new then?

we lay upon

the picnic table, examining

the stars.

my neighbor love,

just ten

and eleven

we were

and yet, what feelings

we carried

within our

hearts.

what wasn't new then?

each star,

each breath,

each gaze into one

another's eyes.

i could hardly breath

around

her.

touching her hand,

would

the beginning

of a life

of love, yet in the end,

all from afar.

winter in Boston

the short

years

in Boston are only remembered

now

in black and white.

we looked happy

beside our snowman,

his hat on,

the carrot nose,

buttons for eyes, his

mouth stitched with

with twigs

and twine,

just me and my brother.

the camera

holding

still

in my mother's hands.

she was happy

then,

i hope.

the jar lamp

a line of white glue,

squeezed

from

the toughened

tube,

used once,

maybe twice

when a ball was thrown

across the room

to strike

the vase

on the mantle.

tears were shed and yet,

it was hardly

an heirloom.

and now.

in this morning light.

i gently

apply another line

along

two halves of an old

jar

lamp,

cracked

down the center,

not mine.

but maybe it was important

to someone,

so i try.

quaint memories

there's no cure

for this, no balm or pill

that will

ease this rage,

this unbridled fury

boiling

over

in a world gone mad,

civility,

politeness, decorum,

a quaint

visage 

of the past.

there is no tipping

of the hat,

no

grace,

no apology

which makes us elders,

like

generations before us,

linger

in shadows,

sighing, depleted

and sad.

time to start giving back

having a little free time

i go

down

to the local hospital to volunteer.

okay,

the head nurse says.

what are your skills?

ummm.

well.

i'm not good with

babies,

all that crying

and throwing up.

the whole diaper thing

gives me the willies.

or really old people.

they scare me.

and i have little or no

patience

around

sick people, i'm afraid

of catching what they have.

basically

i'm not good at comforting

others

when they're in

pain.

so i don't know.

maybe i could work in

the cafeteria?

i can do eggs. hard boiled,

scrambled.

the secret is lots of cheese.

she looks at me and smiles.

i got just

the thing for you,

she says,

then hands me a broom

and a dust pan,

pointing out the window

at the trash

and leaves.

being misunderstood

i probably

drink too much coffee,

read

too many books,

watch too many shows,

work too long

and hard,

buy too many clothes,

shoes.

i can't take enough

naps

it seems.

or stop writing too

many poems.

some good, some bad,

some that

i'll regret later,

when i pick up

the phone.

the six iron

we all have a sweet

spot.

the swing

of a club

hitting the ball

soundly

towards the ninth hole,

plunking

the ball

onto the green,

over the bunker,

the pond,

with little or no roll.

a perfect

lie,

for an eagle, or

at worst

a birdie. sometimes

it just

magically

goes.

let's go sailing

we buy things

because

we think that we want them,

need them.

they will

complete our

lives, or what we imagine

our lives to be.

we buy a stupid boat.

we buy

a captain's hat,

a shirt with

parrots on it.

three weeks

later,

we're looking at  it,

swaying

against the pylons,

the rust,

the algae,

the mold, the gas

prices,

no one wants to sail

all day

to smith island,

for an oyster

anymore.

house arrest

he was under

house

arrest for a while.

lock and key until the sentence

was over.

when good behavior

made the judge

more lenient

and smile.

was the money worth it.

the loss

of respect,

and trust.

how did it happen so

suddenly,

was it greed,

or power,

ego,

how did life turn him

from a lion

into a mouse?

debonair days

the debonair

days seem

to be done, the well-dressed man

in gabardines

and fine

suits,

alligator shoes

and cuff links

to hold the sleeves down.

the days

of fine

cotton

and silk,

have left us.

the ascot,

the handkerchief,

a sharp hat, a dab

of cologne.

the morning paper,

coffee.

the martini lunch,

golf

then the afternoon

snooze.

st. petersburg

the signs are planted

in the yards.

for sale.

everyone is moving.

they're at an age

where

they feel the need to sell

and move on.

the yards too big

to care

for. the upkeep.

too many stairs

for these knees, 

time to get out.

out of the old

house,

away from the old memories.

time to sail away,

starting

new

somewhere,

somehow.

there were people here

there were people

here

at one point, a family,

and before them

another

and before them

another.

children were made,

their height marked

against

the kitchen door.

they grew

and went off to their

own lives.

christmas occurred.

birthdays.

new years were welcome

with

music

and toasts.

people got old

and died

in the dark rooms.

the snow came up to the window

some winters.

in the garden

flowers grew.

there were people here

at one point,

a family, 

and before them another.

this was all

before you.