we choose

we choose
our lives, despite what
some think of fate, or destiny,
dna,
or parental guidance,
or misguidance.
there is nothing
set in the stars,
in cement, there is
no set way, or path
decided upon. you choose
the pain
you're in, the suffering
you endure,
or the joy you wish to
find and keep.
it's up to you, not some
grand plan
for your life already
written. there is no
truth in a horoscope
or some crazy gypsy
looking at a crystal
ball or the palm of your
hand. there is nothing
in those tea leaves.
and instead of prayer,
take action,
be the person God wants
you to be, quit whining
about your life,
be a woman, be a man.
quit abusing or allowing
others to abuse you.
get the toxic souls out
of your life
and live. live a true
life.