big boat, small dinghy?

i perceive it to be 

a man thing.

possessing

the big

boat,

the large car,

the monster sized

truck,

up on four wheels, 

set high.

the enormous house

and yard.

a pool, Olympic sized.

the corner office,

the big salary,

the wife with enlarged

breasts,

big hair,

and long legs.

bigger is better, 

it seems

to be said.

perhaps as Freud

implied 

that a fat cigar

is not just a cigar

after all.