old grudges

the family arguments are old.
stale
by any measure. what the point
was
is lost.
but the anger remains,
it festers, burns
like old
coal, hot and white
red embers,
fast flying into flame.
it's hard to remember
who said what,
who
did what to whom, years
have gone by.
winters have
delivered snow,
summers
have folded
onto one another in green,
then gold.
is it easier to hold on
to old
grudges and never
make amends, it appears
so.
that's how it's been.